I am looking to meet more people, make more friends and get out more. I am also looking to meet someone for a very LTR. I want to have children. My own biological child(ren). This is not to say that I can't deal with pre-existing children, just that I admit that I have the ego that I do want to sire at least one child of my own. Further, I have been in open and polyamorous relationships before, and I would say that I am monogamish. I am not *seeking* a poly relationship, but neither am I adverse to one. I am seeking a relationship that can (sensibly) lead to parenthood.
The *want kids* factor is also what drives my advertised age range. I feel like I am not likely to have much in common with someone under 30; and, unfortunately, with how nature treats the fertility/age factor, over 40 is a heck of a lot harder to have kids. Now, if you're over 40, really want kids and think that this somewhat awkward and geeky guy might be your cup of tea, then please, drop me a line.
Now back to our previously written introduction:
I am a geeky intellectual. I am also loyal, protective, silly, and consider the word "weird" to be a compliment.
What you see is what you get with me. There is very little difference between who I am in public and who I am in private, except that I almost never get naked in public.
I will try almost anything once, twice if I'm not quite sure whether or not I liked it the first time.
I am often willing to do most anything, but do sometimes need a bit of help to get there.
I don't seem like it to many, but I'm actually kind of shy until I get comfortable with someone.
I am somewhat introverted, and do need some time to myself. However, I also really like to be around people who draw me out of my shell.
I talk. A lot. About many subjects. Lots of different things are interesting to me, and I have a memory for trivial information about most anything.
I am a polymath, but pretty much a monoglot. I know a little Spanish, but otherwise I only know food vocabulary in other languages, and only a little of that,
I am looking for someone who is more outgoing than I am, has a keen mind and a sharp wit. A touch of attitude is good. I love an independent and individual spirit.
People tend to fall into one of two camps (often best seen in their parenting styles) nurturing or authoritarian. I am in the nurturing camp and am looking for someone else who is as well.
Humor is how I deal with the world. I look to be amused as much of the time as possible. While I can certainly be serious, I try to put a little lightheartedness and levity into everything I do.
Make me laugh. Please.
I waver between being on a bunch, and not being on at all.
I am looking to find interesting people to spend time with. While I am a very sexual person, I am not looking for "booty calls," rather i am looking to establish relationships that may or may not become sexual.
I am definitely a bay area person. I was born here back when Walnut Creek still had walnut trees. I have lived in other places, including Chicago, Austin, DC, Vancouver and Santa Cruz. I have found that I'm only happy when living on the west coast.
I consider being called weird a complement.
I like spicy food of many kinds, and enjoy making it nearly as much as consuming it.
I enjoy kinky, but don't require it.
I believe that communication is the key to keeping relationships working. Honesty is also key - being poly is hard enough in this world.
In the "my details" section, I would like to be able to add "roasted" or "fried" to the "likes children" - yes that's the way my sense of humor goes.