I am a geeky intellectual. I am also loyal, protective, silly, and consider the word "weird" to be a compliment.
What you see is what you get with me. There is very little difference between who I am in public and who I am in private, except that I almost never get naked in public.
I will try almost anything once, twice if I'm not quite sure whether or not I liked it the first time.
I am often willing to do most anything, but do sometimes need a bit of help to get there.
I don't seem like it to many, but I'm actually kind of shy until I get comfortable with someone.
I am somewhat introverted, and do need some time to myself. However, I also really like to be around people who draw me out of my shell.
I talk. A lot. About many subjects. Lots of different things are interesting to me, and I have a memory for trivial information about most anything.
I am a polymath, but pretty much a monoglot. I know a little Spanish, but otherwise I only know food vocabulary in other languages, and only a little of that,
I am looking for someone who is more outgoing than I am, has a keen mind and a sharp wit. A touch of attitude is good. I love an independent and individual spirit.
People tend to fall into one of two camps (often best seen in their parenting styles) nurturing or authoritarian. I am in the nurturing camp and am looking for someone else who is as well.
Humor is how I deal with the world. I look to be amused as much of the time as possible. While I can certainly be serious, I try to put a little lightheartedness and levity into everything I do.
Make me laugh. Please.
I waver between being on a bunch, and not being on at all.
I am looking to find interesting people to spend time with. While I am a very sexual person, I am not looking for "booty calls," rather i am looking to establish relationships that may or may not become sexual.
I am definitely a bay area person. I was born here back when Walnut Creek still had walnut trees. I have lived in other places, including Chicago, Austin, DC, Vancouver and Santa Cruz. I have found that I'm only happy when living on the west coast.
I consider being called weird a complement.
I like spicy food of many kinds, and enjoy making it nearly as much as consuming it.
Almost all of my relationships have been "open" in some way.
I enjoy kinky, but don't require it.
I believe that communication is the key to keeping relationships working. Honesty is also key - being poly is hard enough in this world.
In the "my details" section, I would like to be able to add "roasted" or "fried" to the "likes children" - yes that's the way my sense of humor goes.