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aforeverdate

45 / F / straight / Single

Saint Paul, Minnesota

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am easy-going, smart, and funny.

My Self-Summary

This is always the hardest thing to do...either you sound as dull as a white wall or like an egotistical door knob. Those that know me well would probably describe me as a fairly easy-going person who is a great listener and fun to be around. I can usually make the people around me laugh, but they also know I have a serious side that is sensitive, introspective and self-aware.

I’m really good at

People tell me that I make them feel at ease very quickly. I make people comfortable from the start. I'm a great conversationalist as well as an attentive listener.

The first things people usually notice about me

The first thing people usually notice about is my smile and my glasses? Not sure what they notice. Perhaps you can tell me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I'm not an avid reader; I have to really be in the right setting. But I do love Patricia Cornwell and the Dr. Kay Scarpetta books. They would make fantastic movies.

I love movies of all kinds, but have a fondness for period or histroical pieces. One of my very favorites is Auntie Mame, staring Rosalind Russell. The movie has a great message of living life to the fullest. If I'm feeling down or just need to see a movie where I feel great after watching it, I put Mame in the DVD player and all is right with the world. Another favorite is Spinal Tap. Hysterical!

My musical tastes are all over the board; from alternative to country to 80s and classic rock. As long as it's not Rap or Heavy Metal, I'm a happy camper. Some perenial favorites are Lyle Lovett, John Hiatt, Bonnie Raitt. I'm getting in to some of the neweer artists like Brandi Carlisle, Dido and Matt Nathanson.

I'm not much a spicy food person; but I love Italian, Asain, Thai and a good old-fashioned steak or burger.

The six things I could never do without

1. My Family
2. My Friends
3. Coffee, coffee, coffee
4. Chocolate, chocolate, chocolate
5. Creative outlets
6. My job

On a typical Friday night I am

When I'm not involved with someone, you can typically find me at home with maybe a pizza and a movie or out with friends for happy hour.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

It's private for a reason....

You should message me if

If what you just read didn't scare you, email me! Let's chat!