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afpj23

36 / M / straight / Single

Schenectady, New York

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I am Honest, Loyal, and Sincere.

My Self-Summary

I am nice guy who enjoys spending time with his friends and family. I am very sarcastic. I love to make people smile and laugh. I am looking to get into a relationship that has the potential to last forever. I am not here for a “hit it and forget” deal. I also am not looking for someone who wants to be married in the next year. I guess I would say I am looking for someone who wants to start out slow and see where it leads us. The things I bring to the table are honesty, loyalty, a sense of humor. Some would say I am a hopeless romantic. I am not into the bar thing, I am not a big partier. My idea of a good date would be a nice dinner and conversation. I like to cuddle and watch a movie rather then go out to clubs. I believe that you should try and live within your means and that there are many things that are more important then money. I am a dedicated family man. I have no children of my own. I am very close with my nephews and nieces. The sun raises and sets upon them. I am very honest and open, so if you contact me feel free to ask me anything and you will get an answer.

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently employed at a seasonal restaurant. It is the best job every. I am currently looking to move on with my life after an 11 year marriage.

I’m really good at

Being a friend. I listen and try to give good advice to help solve my friends problem.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I say whats on my mind.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I do not read other then on the computer. Its a long story I will explain if you are interested.

I like action or comidies for movies. The list would include the God Father movies, Tombston, GranTariano, anything with Adam Snadler or Jim Carry.

My taste in music ranges from oldies, to some country, to even rap. The music I listen too depends on my mood.

I love all kinds of food. I enjoy fine dinning but am also happy to saty at home and have a nice dinner.

The six things I could never do without

My Family
My Friends
My Job
My independence
My free time
My Computer

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What my future holds. How I can reach my goals and if I will have someone to share my life with.

On a typical Friday night I am

I sit at home and get on the computer. I am not into the bar thing.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I will answer any questions you have for me, I am an open book.

You should message me if

You are looking for someone who wants to start a monogamous realtionship, that could someday lead to marriage. Or if you are looking for someone who wants to be friends.