I'm the product of deep, black southern roots steeped in Ukrainian tradition. Therefore, the European decorum and Southern manners with which I was raised have left me with a few tendencies: I don't put my elbows on the table, chew with my mouth closed, have been known to say "y'all", have great posture, and am a gracious and generous host. I was the soccer / bookworm / record store nerd in school who grew up to be a walking contradiction, a progressive throwback, a warrior-poet, an opinionated introvert, a fountain of Seinfeldian references, yadda yadda yadda.
Guys like me do things like quote obscure movie lines in full character until you laugh, convince you to ride an hour outside the city for a jar of rhubarb preserves, write a haiku on your leg, and let you keep my sunglasses after you borrow them. I love art, sports, cartoons, music, the sun, and life in general, including my job and all things academic; I'm addicted to learning and am always taking some sort of class whether in pursuit of another degree or some random hobby.
I value spiritual strength, emotional intelligence, and physical fitness. Please know that these are absolutely non-negotiable. We don't have to agree on their foundations, but they have to exist for both of us.
Every precious moment on this earth is a gift, so I fill each one with things I've always wanted to do: I affect change through the youth, coach and compete in athletics, have finally started my own business, and let grad school devour the rest of my time. When I go, I go hard, and while I'm ok with the fact that my busy schedule has left me with a little less spare time than usual, I'm willing to rearrange a few things for the right person.
That's where you come in.
*fade out Raphael Saadiq, fade in The Rolling Stones: "Thru and Thru"
You're spontaneous but not reckless, right? An intellectual with humility? Are you kind almost to a fault?
Will you throw your heels in the corner and dance until you sweat if your favorite song comes on? I swear I would if I wore heels.
You have favorite things and know how to share without regret. You love competition, but are not a sore loser. You're neat but not obsessed, beautiful sans meticulousness, tolerant, wear your hair naturally, and are a free-thinker. I'm a sucker for the really smart girls (I'll chase you if you're ivy league or if you have more degrees than I), and our conversations will keep the check on the table for quite some time, even though its been paid. You'd be down with starting our own "vinyl and red wine night" or something. You can disagree without being angry. You have a history with some bumps and bruises, but they have all healed. You are formally educated but a lifelong learner. You question, respect, and rebel against authority when necessary. You're thinking about messaging me. I've been looking for you, too.
*Fade out Thru and Thru, fade in "Call Waiting" by Zap Mama