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afterfire

22 / F / straight / Single

Fremont, Ohio

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Black, White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am goofy, passionate, and creative.

My Self-Summary

Alright, the lowdown....I'm goofy, serious, passionate, shy, clingy, sarcastic, random, particular and blunt. I laugh, smile and giggle a lot at things that aren't even funny half the time but I have the unique sense of humor that lets me pull it off. I have a bit of a random side that leads to really off the wall comments, I try not to talk before thinking for just that reason. I'm a passionate person and when I love I love and when I don't like, I really, really don't like. I didn't say hate because I can't stand that word, I might say it jokingly but I never mean it, it's a strong word and you can never take it back.

As far as what I’m looking for on here…..something serious. I said I was clingy a few sentences back and while I am, I’m not going to be on the phone 20 times in a minute to find out where you are or who you’re with, I’ve just learned that a lot of guys describe clingy as wanting to talk at least once a day and see each other more than once every other week, sorry folks, I still refuse to budge on that little bit. I’m kind of a romantic in some ways and love just staying in and cuddling up on the couch to watch a movie. I absolutely love children and hope to have some of my own when the time and person is right and while I‘m not against dating people with children, I have to say that I‘ve really never dated anyone with children seriously so it would be and adjustment. I’m very close to my family and would like someone who can understand that and wouldn’t mind spending time around them. As far as what I do on my free time, I’m a homebody, I love to bake and cook. But that doesn’t mean I don’t like going out, I’m just not into the bar scene too much. Bonfires, just sitting around talking or going out to grab a bite to eat isn’t frowned upon. I guess someone I can be friends with and if something comes from that, awesome, if not, still a new friend : )

Oh and also, I actually read profiles so if I e-mail you, it doesn’t mean I’m madly attracted to you every time, I probably just found something really funny or interesting about you’re profile and wanted to comment, don’t freak out.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm currently a baker part time and have a small side business that keeps me in the kitchen, which I love.

I’m really good at

I think here is where I say one thing but everyone else thinks its something else haha. I think I'm good at making people laugh and being a good listener. I'm also good at cooking/baking, I love to do it so always try to make whatever I make the best it can be.

The first things people usually notice about me

My laugh or my size. I'm not a small girl and am only interested in people who are ok with that. I mean, what's the point of trying to start a solid relationship with someone who will only want you after you change something about yourself? Not to say I'm not working on it just an fyi

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Bet Me (all time favorite!!!!), almost the entire Dark-Hunter series, Where the Sidewalk Ends lol, Tuesdays With Morrie

Movies: P.S. I Love You, 300, The Strangers, Oceans 11, Lean on Me, Ice Age: The Melt Down, Men In Black, Jurassic Park....

Music: I'm all over the place, to be honest. I listen to mainly the top 40 stuff but my ipod is just....really really all over the place

Food: I'm a fan of Mexican and Mediterranean but I enjoy all types, the only way to grow is to step outside you're comfort zone

The six things I could never do without

1. Family and Friends (my cat Lil Bit is included in that)
2. A kitchen with a full stocked pantry*
3. My cell phone
4. My favorite book
5. Love
6. Laughter (last by not least of course lol)

*the pantry has to have NOS in it

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I'm a planner so I think a lot about the future, which includes but isn't limited to my job, orders that I get for the little bakery I've started up, what's going to happen with friends and family and.....well you get the picture I think. :)

On a typical Friday night I am

Usually being a homebody :) I work early on Saturdays so I'm not one to go out on Friday, my weekend is usually Wednesday and Thursday night haha. On those nights, I'm walking (in the dark yes, but it gets dark early now so 6 pm is now night to me), hanging with friends, in the kitchen making cookies, watching a movie or on the rare occasion out at a bar.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am horribly horribly forgetful

You should message me if

I seem interesting? Something caught you're eye (good or bad honestly) and you want to know more. I'm a pretty open person and open to whatever happens.

Or....if I messaged you first. It seems every guy on here seems to think every girl is madly deeply falling for them and they have to dodge them if they get sent a message by someone not meeting their 'standards'. I am the type that , if I read a profile and see something funny or something that I'm curious about, I'm going to message you. It DOES NOT mean I'm interested in starting a relationship with you, it means I found something interesting....I mean really, please lose the ego's on here......