Originally from the Midwest, I spent some time on the east coast in New York before relocating across the country to California in 2013. I love it here and don't really plan to ever leave, except to travel.
Important things to know about me:
* I am polyamorous and more than a little bit kinky. If you aren't experienced with non-monogamy and at least open to attending kink events, I'm not the woman for you.
* I am in serious relationship with a pretty awesome guy who I've been seeing for over a year. I'm definitely looking for casual dating and potentially another serious romantic relationship -- but he isn't going anywhere.
* I do not do "don't ask, don't tell." Consent and ethical non-monogamy are VITAL. If you're sleeping around behind your partner's back, gtfo.
* I'm not interested in dating couples. I've tried it, and just wasn't my cup of tea. Thanks but no thanks :)
Intelligence and sharp wit send my heart a-flutter. I love educated people, but I don't think all education comes from books and institutionalized learning. A thirst for learning and self-improvement does not require an expensive piece of paper, and education is a privileged system that is not a one-size-fits-all.
If you care about that sort of thing, I am an ENFP. I'm not the settling down type, so I prefer those who want to run free with me instead. I enjoy dating both single-type people as well as those with existing partners.
I'm not just looking for sex or boring dates where we struggle to come up with something to say to each other. I want romance. I want to go to the beach at sunset and marvel at the exquisite beauty of nature with you. I want to seek out foodgasms at hole-in-the-wall restaurants with you. I want to laugh until one/both of us snorts with you. I want to attend a concert at a small, intimate venue and feel the music reverberate through my soul with you. I want to bar hop until 3am with you. I want to stay in on a Tuesday evening and play Scrabble or watch too many episodes of some hilarious TV show with you. I want to cook with you. I want to discuss books and childhood memories and weird history with you. I want to learn from you. If any or all of that sounds good, send me a message. I want to hear from you.