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27 / M / Straight / Single

Detroit, Michigan

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I can never seem to give this a flow of any sort it just comes out like a stream of consciousness list of things. Well any way I'm an anarchist. I'm working class. I'm queer. According to the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator I have a INTP type personality. I'm vegan. I listen to hardcore, punk, and hip hop, i also love 60s soul and 60s ska/reggae. I like to dance. I also love stage dives and high fives. I love beer. I love hockey and soccer. I love bikes, so much in fact that I don't own a car (that's a bit of a cop out, like I could afford a car), I would like to get a moped because winter biking sucks.

Things I hate: fascists, nationalists, racists, sexists, homophobes.

Just a couple quick notes about me being queer.
1. I consider myself pansexual, gender isn't an issue for me when I'm attracted to someone.
2. Why do I have myself in here as straight although I'm queer? I had myself listed as bisexual and I had received a lot of messages from guys but to be honest only one really stood out and I had already met him via facebook. I changed it from bi to straight to cut down on the messages. I tend to be very picky when it comes to guys. I'm sorry other queer guys on this site, probably not attracted to you, unless you happen to look like Brendan Kelly. Or if you look like Raul Meireles. Really google the two of them: if you're tall, thin, dark haired, scruffy, and tatted up then i probably think you're hot. Some friends have brought to my attention that this somewhat describes me and have posited that I'm not queer but incredibly vain to the point of wanting to fuck myself, I don't think that's true.
What I’m doing with my life
I was a history and education major at Wayne State. Bartending Wednesday nights at Woodbridge Pub and barbacking at Rodin. Looking for another bartending job in Detroit (Downtown, Cass Corridor/Wayne State, New Center, anywhere I can bike to) because a man's got to move up in the world. I'm also currently working on starting a mod/skinhead soul and reggae night. I'd also like to eventually finish my education degree so I can teach when I start hating nights and enjoying mornings.
I’m really good at
Cooking vegan food. Being an asshole. Stage dives and high fives.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am the son and the heir of a shyness that is criminally vulgar. Oh and how much I fucking swear. No seriously I am socially inept and have the hardest time talking to people outside my circle of friends, especially those I'm attracted to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anarchist Lit, documentaries, don't watch much TV, punk, vegan.

Books:
Orwell
Vonnegut
Dostoevsky
Gogol
Chomsky
Zinn
Anarchist Literature

Movies:
mostly documentaries but also,
anything with Bill Murray other than Garfield
Evil Dead series
the original Star Wars trilogy
There Will Be Blood
This Is England
The Big Lebowski
Fargo
Repo Man
Purple Rain
Libertarias
Land and Freedom
Wet Hot American Summer

Shows: (Most of the TV shows I watch are via Netflix)
On the Air
Sports (I'm a huge Red Wings, Tigers, and Wolverines fan and I'll watch any soccer game I can, especially if it's Celtic FC, Arsenal, or Barcelona)
Community
Archer
The League
Louie
Off the Air
Mystery Science Theatre 3000 (Mike Nelson > Joel Hodgson)
Mr. Show
Arrested Development
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
30 Rock
Kids in the Hall

Music:
Punk & Hardcore
Descendents (My favorite band of all time. Except Enjoy that album was just bad.)
Lawrence Arms
Jawbreaker (I've got the 4Fs tattooed on my leg.)
Propagandhi
Minor Threat
Bane
Gorilla Biscuits
Fucked Up
Strike Anywhere
Lifetime
Kid Dynamite
Ceremony
Punch
Trash Talk
Outbreak
Masked Intruder
Scholastic Deth
Monsula
Clash
Green Day (First three albums, maybe first four.)
Suicide Machines (You can't be from Detroit and not love them.)
Hip Hop
Wu Tang Clan (and solo stuff especially GZA "Liquid Swords")
Notorious BIG
Ice Cube
Dead Prez
Nas (Illmatic)
A Tribe Called Quest
Ska & Reggae
Toots & the Maytals
Desmond Dekker
Laurel Aitken
Jimmy Cliff
Lee Perry
Derrick Morgan
Soul
Otis Redding
Lee Dorsey
James Brown
Aretha Franklin
Betty Everett
The Supremes
Marvin Gaye
Other Stuff
Bruce Springsteen
Creedence Clearwater Revival
David Bowie
Johnny Cash
Billy Bragg
The Specials
Blondie
Joy Division/New Order
Chumbawamba (SERIOUSLY! Tubthumping isn't their only song.)
Gang of Four
Smiths/Morrissey
The Thermals
LCD Soundsytem
Daft Punk
Weezer (Blue Album)
Beck
Parliament
Prince
Madonna
B-52's
Depeche Mode

Really just go to my last fm to find out.
http://www.last.fm/user/anarchomatt

Food:
Whatever it is, it's vegan.
cupcakes
brownies
General Tso's tofu
my homemade biscuits and gravy
pad thai
lentil soup
falafel sandwiches
veggie curry
veggie dogs off the grill with bbq sauce
the vegan BLT pizza that my friends Jeremy and AJ make
The six things I could never do without
Whiskey and beer (If not a craft beer or an import I'm drinking PBR, High Life, or Strohs... fuck mid level beers. With drinking it's either about the destination or the journey: if its about the "destination" (you know getting drunk) don't waste your money: go bottom shelf and buy that Kessler, Popov, Boone's Farm, or Milwaukee's Best Ice. On the other hand if you want to enjoy what you're drinking... spend that way.),
a pen and notebook
my cell phone,
my turntables and vinyl collection,
my bike Holy Diver (yes my bike is named after a Dio song),
xbox 360 and my netflix account
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I shouldn't be so fucking cynical.

How shits hitting the fan... like in Greece, Spain, etc. Then thinking all romantic about the possibility to go off and join the new International Brigades, bailing on the Stalinsts or Trots maybe even social democrats who brought me over and joining the anarchist militias. NO PASARAN!
On a typical Friday night I am
Working from 3PM to 3AM at Rodin. Going home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On occasion I will put on Madonna's Immaculate Collection and dance around.

When I'm sitting or lying in bed my cat Purruti (named after the Spanish anarchist Beunaventura Durruti) will come over, lay on my chest and attempt to nurse on me. Straight up nuzzle his head under my chin and start suckling on my collarbone. It's a shame he was taken from his mother too early, but I'm flattered that he feels that way about me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
My ex and I have a really weird relationship right now. Rachael and I are still really close. I take care of her dog and "my" cat is technically "our" cat. Her and I hang out on a regular basis, probably once a week. The only requirement I have is that you wouldn't be threatened or weirded out by this.

You're cute and cynical. Oh... and if you like bikes or vegan food.

And if you happen to look like or be Brendan Kelly.

You love quoting The Big Lebowski.

You've ever gone out for Halloween as Margot Tenenbaum and need a Richie.

You want to buy guns and ship off to southern Europe.

You want to spend a (b)romantic summer drinking Strohs on my porch while listening to Springsteen, Slayer, and the Specials.