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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 12
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a Bay Area native with a career since 1995 in Chinese Medicine, Therapeutic Bodywork, and Holistic Health. I love helping others experience higher quality of life through natural means, and especially helping people get their lives back from serious illness, injuries, or trauma.

I'm passionate about many things, so I'm back in school, working on multiple projects, and balancing it all with personal time, keeping fit, family, friends, and looking for a special lady to make a future with.

I'm a consummate learner, with particular interests in human potential, history, science, and technology. I'm a Futurist, a Root Beer connoisseur, and a devout lover of music, theater, film, photography, art, performance, and the great outdoors. I love hiking, hot springs, snowboarding, cross country skiing, road cycling, mountain biking, scuba diving, and sky diving.

I've been to Thailand, Barbados, and Portland once, Maui twice, and Idaho and Arizona many times. I want to see just about every other country in the world. Growing up on National Geographic filled me with a permanent sense of wonder, curiosity, and wanderlust.

I pride myself on having excellent communication skills, culture, intellect, humor, and good health. I savor life and think I strike a healthy balance of being present while planning for the near and far future. It seems I always have more passion and interests than I have time to explore them all.

I've had a very colorful life so far. With all my interests and abilities, it's hard to summarize myself here and give you a just idea about who I am, so ask me anything you want. I don't bite :) I look forward to getting to know you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working on a non-fiction book on human potential, preparing to launch a meditation tool, and running private holistic health practice.

In the midst of all that, I'm making an effort to find that special someone that I can call my best friend, and one day my wife, to share an amazing life together -which may or may not include kids.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Therapeutic Bodywork, communication, listening, editing, critical thinking, creative cooking, imagination, wandering, and having fun :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've never asked.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

The Biology of Belief, The Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit, Siddhartha, Play of Consciousness, Neuromancer, Cosmos, Contact, the Myth Adventure series by Robert Asprin, Minds, Brains and Science by John Searle, Phaedo by Plato, Matter and Consciousness by Churchland, Frank Netter's Atlas of Human Anatomy, Healing with Whole Foods by Paul Pitchford, Mosby's Medical Dictionary, Webster's Dictionary (many people look this one over, and it shows), The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, How to Win Friends & Influence People, The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, Anger (by Thich Nhat Hanh), The Prophet, The Power of Now, Wicked, Between Heaven & Earth: A Guide to Chinese Medicine, The Ayurveda Encyclopedia, NIV Bible, Autobiography of a Yogi, Bhagavad-Gita, Tao & Dharma, Eternity, Eon and Eternity by Greg Bear, The 23rd Annual Collection of the Year's Best Science Fiction, John Gray's Mars-Venus books, Alex Grey's books, books by C.G. Jung, Terence McKenna, and Joseph Campbell, Inner Work by Johnson, graphic novels by Wendy Pini (Elfquest) and Neil Gaiman, college text books on Psychology, Cultural Anthropology, Western Philosophy, Critical Thinking/Logic, Ancient History, Poetry, World Politics, Human Sexuality, Biology, Biotechnology, Astronomy, Creative Writing, books on holistic health, yoga, shamanism, herbology, nutrition, various bodywork modalities, poetry, art, philosophy, healing, etc.


Raiders of the Lost Ark, Blade Runner, Star Wars IV-VI, the Matrix trilogy, V for Vendetta, The Game, The Secret of NIMH, Stir of Echoes, Ladyhawk, The Silver Linings Playbook, Shame, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, The 6th Sense, Life As We Know It, Limitless, Mirrormask, The Prestige, The Fountain, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (Sweden & US), Inception, Alien, Aliens, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, Legend, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, Fight Club, Interview With the Vampire, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Now You See Me, The Social Network, Ruby Sparks, Contact, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Juno, Ghost, Donnie Darko, The Doors, Big, Avatar, Elysium, Titanic, The Island, Ghost in the Shell 1 & 2, Appleseed I & 2, Pitch Perfect, Edward Scissorhands, Alice in Wonderland (by Burton), the Pirates of the Carribbean series, Sleepy Hollow *By Burton), Red Dawn, The Lord of the Rings trilogy, The Hobbit, Man of Steel, Star Trek, 300, Hellboy, Dune, The Last Samurai, Footloose (both versions), Minority Report, Baraka, Monster's Inc, Monsters University, Toy Story 1-3, Galaxy Quest, Pitch Black, Life as a House, Mystic River, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Gangster Squad, This Must Be the Place, The Thin Red Line, American Psycho, Wallstreet, 21 Grams, Seven Pounds, Traffic, Wag the Dog, Spiderman 1-3, The Amazing Spiderman, The Interpreter, Platoon, Apocalypse Now, Captain America, Milk, Erin Brokovich, Taken, Taken 2, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Point Break, Lost Boys, The Incredibles, The King's Speech, Regarding Henry, Grease, Little Miss Sunshine, Kick-Ass, Cocoon, We Are The Night, Taken, Taken 2, the Harry Potter series, Iron Man 1-3, Batman Begins, the Dark Knight Rises, Hulk, The Incredible Hulk, Prometheus, Hannibal, the Shawshank Redemption, Vicki, Cristina, Barcelona, The Motorcycle Diaries, Lost in Translation, The 40 Year Old Virgin, There's Something About Mary, 13 Going On 30, The Wedding Crashers, the Pain Locker, Zack and Miri Make a Porno, Braveheart, Apocalypto, Conan the Barbarian (1982), Knocked Up, This Is 40, Philadelphia, Warrior, Shogun, Castaway, Forest Gump, Along Came a Spider, Sin City, Pan's Labyrinth, X-men: First Class, Take Me Home Tonight, Sixteen Candles, The Outsiders, Batteries Not Included, The Abyss, The Breakfast Club, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Some Kind of Wonderful, Weird Science, Mr. Mom, Tootsie, Ghostbusters, October Sky, American Beauty, Flight, Billy Elliot, Ip Man 1-2, Hugo, Tron, Tron Legacy, Elizabeth (1998), The Devil Wears Prada, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Artificial Intelligence, Bicentennial Man, Vanilla Sky, The Skeleton Key, The Amazing Spiderman, We Are the Night, Safety Not Guaranteed, Black Snake Moan, The Awakening, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill Vol. 1-2, Django Unchained, Inglorious Basterds, Tonight You're Mine, High Fidelity, Say Anything, The Raven, Hot Tub Time Machine, Stand By Me, Labyrinth, every animated Disney film except their sequels, Medicine Man, Gorillas in the Mist, My Own Private Idaho, 50 First Dates, The Terminal, Mr. & Mrs. Smith

TV/Netflix Originals:

The Spartacus series, Breaking Bad, the Walking Dead, Dexter, True Blood, American Horror Story, Six Feet Under, Sons of Anarchy, Family Guy, The Sopranos, Orange is the New Black, 24, Hemlock Grove, Fringe, Archer, Weeds, Heroes, The Sarah Conner Chronicles, Californication, Vampire Diaries, Smallville, Arrow, Tron Uprising, Touch, Battlestar Galactica (2004-2009)


Black Sabbath, Queen, Def Leppard, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, The Doors, The Rolling Stones, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Jane's Addiction, Guns n Roses, Michael Jackson, Diana Ross, Madonna, Cindy Lauper, Lana Del Rey, Tycho, Nick Pitera, Ulrich Schnauss, Ultimax, Icona Pop, The Naked and Famous, Sigur Ros, M83, Dead Can Dance, David Bowie, Florence and the Machine, The Police, Goldfrapp, Deadmau5, Bonobo, Bebel Gilberto, Anjunabeats, Altan, Magic Sound Fabric, m-seven, Marilyn Manson, Massive Attack, Mazzy Star, The Beastie Boys, The Cure, Vanessa de Mata, Stonefield.


Thai, Indian, Ethiopian, Sushi, Chinese, Vietnamese, Mexican, Italian, Middle Eastern, Hamburgers, Salads, Steamed Broccoli with Braggs & Tahini, Brown Rice & Lentils, Mac & Cheese, Pancakes with Maple Syrup-butter-and-bacon, Eggs -any style, Chobani yogurt (cherry, blood orange), Blood Orange Sorbet, Waffle Cone Ice Cream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.






There's a helluva lot more I could never do without. 6 things is no where near sufficient to reflect our priorities. We're vast, complex beings.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make the world a better place, how I can have more fun, what else I can be awesome at, and my various projects.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Researching, writing, studying, reading, walking, and/or watching a movie; or taking a break from all that and hanging out with friends, or going on a date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a very generous, patient, sensitive lover. I'm not done until you are ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're healthy, fit, sex-positive, self-sufficient, have a career or at least on your path to one (and in either case, one that you love), have excellent communication skills and humor, motivated, positive, clever, witty, cultured, creative, open-minded, adventurous, and educated.

You think Flash Mobs are awesome and would do them whenever you had the chance.

This moves you to tears:

This makes you laugh so hard you almost pee your pants:

You want children one day.

I don't mind if your taller than me, but you have to be at least 5'3". I don't want to create a trend of increasingly shorter generations by having shorter sons who think they need to be with shorter women. So if you're 7' tall, I'd be totally cool with that :)