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25 M East Templeton, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:18pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Dropped out of masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My name is Tyler. I've been with sarahduckiebean since 2004, and we have decided to open our relationship. Ideally we'd like another male who is into both of us to be a third partner in our relationship, but since we've recently discovered how rare and complicated that kind of poly arrangement can be we are now also looking into separate relationships.

Expansion of inexact and "Other" answers:
- I'm a bio-male, but my gender identity and sexual orientation are kind of in grey areas, so I typically describe myself as "queer."
- Ethnicity: I'm of mostly European (Celtic, Germanic, and Hispanic/Iberian) descent, but I also have North-East Woodland American Indian and Middle Eastern/North African ancestry.
- Body type: stocky, about 200 lbs. (a little more or less depending on the day); apparently my body classification is "cub".
- Religion: pantheist, which is basically a mix between an atheist/naturalist and a pagan (also labels with which I identify)

Some of my major interests/activities are: languages, music, theater, art, natural and social sciences, cooking, video games, swimming, camping, biking, hiking, Renaissance fairs, traveling, and trying new things.
What I’m doing with my life
I got my BA in Anthropology from UMass Boston in 2010, and I was going for my MS at Boston College to be a nurse-practitioner, but I had to withdraw for financial reasons (as well as my sanity). I'm currently working full-time as a bank teller to pay the bills, but I want to get back into healthcare and move back to the Boston area soon. I'm also currently part of a half-baked group scheme to move to Florida, so we'll see what happens with that.

That's reality. In my dreams I'm going to be a singer and travel the world, but you know...
I’m really good at
singing, voice acting, languages, empathizing, and making people laugh.

I feel it's also worth noting that I'm terrible at sports, dancing, and anything else that requires coordination.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know. Probably the fact that I'm almost always smiling and/or singing/humming something? You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Me Talk Pretty One Day, Harry Potter, The Hotel New Hampshire, Girl Interrupted, The Giver, The Thief of Always, fantasy/fairy tales, dystopia novels

Movies: Gypsy 83, Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, V for Vendetta, Donnie Darko, Kill Bill, Forrest Gump, Hayao Miyazaki, Tim Burton, Disney, horror, raunchy comedies, etc.

Shows: Family Guy, American Dad, South Park, Bob's Burgers, Glee, Chopped, Bizarre Foods, Taboo, science/nature shows

Music: Queen, Tracy Chapman, Vienna Teng, Simon & Garfunkel, The Kelly Family, rock, classical, indigenous/traditional...pretty much anything with a nice sound

Food: I like almost everything, but my absolute favorite is hot pot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. This is a warning: I am probably one of the most obnoxiously over-thinking/ambivalent/indecisive people you will ever meet.
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging out with my friends; it's our game/movie night.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating