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26 East Templeton, MA Man


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  • Ages 21–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 11:38am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Other (Poorly)

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Hi! My name is Tyler. My partner sarahduckiebean and I have been together since 2004 and are open/polyamorous but cohabiting and very committed. Because I'm already with such an awesome woman I'm primarily looking to be with a guy but open to other possibilities. I'm not interested in one-night stands but I don't expect a committed relationship right off the bat either, so I'd like to start out as friends - with or without benefits - and let it progress naturally if there's potential for more. If you're into both me and Sarah that's even better but not expected. A triad is a very appealing option for us but we'd rather just let it happen if it happens rather than try to force it.

I'm really into: music/theatre/art, learning languages, natural and social sciences, cooking, gaming, philosophizing, swimming, hiking/exploring, traveling, laughing hysterically, and trying new things whenever possible. Oh, and I enjoy any excuse to wear a costume; plays, Renaissance fairs, Halloween, you name it.

To clear up some of the "other" and ambiguous selections on here:
Gender & Orientation - queer, but if you want specifics I'm a bio-male genderqueer and andro-leaning bisexual (about a Kinsey 4) open to trans people
Ethnicity - assorted (mostly Western) European, North-Eastern Woodland Algonquian American Indian, Middle Eastern/North African, and who knows what else
Body Type - stocky/cub/just under 200 lbs (90 kg)
Drugs - not really into them, but I've used marijuana socially a few times and would be willing to try some other softer stuff
Religion - pantheist/naturalistic pagan/spiritual atheist/etc.; basically I prefer science/logic to supernaturalism but revere nature, see the universe as an interconnected system, and embrace spirituality while admitting that I know nothing for certain
What I’m doing with my life
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If my dreams come true I'm going to be a successful wealthy performer, travel the world, help people, and come home from adventuring to a self-sustaining yurt on a private patch of land, but as far as reality goes...

I'm currently working full-time as a bank teller - *cries and vomits* - but I hope to go back to school soon for something in a healthcare field (most likely nursing or occupational therapy) and move back to the Boston area, although I may choose to escape MA/New England/USA altogether.
I’m really good at
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singing, voice and character acting, empathizing, and making people laugh.

I'm really bad at sports, dancing, and anything else that requires coordination.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Me Talk Pretty One Day, The Hotel New Hampshire, Girl Interrupted, The Giver, Harry Potter, The Alchemist, The Thief of Always, fantasy/fairy tales, dystopia novels, and a lot of articles/informational stuff (e.g. spiritual, scientific, cultural, etc.)

Movies: Gypsy 83, Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, V for Vendetta, Donnie Darko, Kill Bill, Forrest Gump, Hayao Miyazaki, Tim Burton, Disney, foreign, indie, horror, raunchy comedies

Shows: Family Guy, American Dad, South Park, Bob's Burgers, Glee, Supernatural, Big Bang Theory, Orange is the New Black, Chopped, Bizarre Foods, Taboo, forensic/real crime, science/nature

Music: Queen, Tracy Chapman, Vienna Teng, Evanescence, Blackmore's Night, Die Antwoord, rock, classical, folk...pretty much anything with a nice sound

Food: I like almost everything, but my absolute favorite is hot pot and I like to try new regional/cultural cuisines whenever possible.
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you want to (duh?)! I'm always open to new friends and random conversation. :)

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