Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am from coastal New England which will always feel like home.
When I'm in places that are new to me I make an effort to learn
about the life of those who live there...I am an ethnographer at
I have an exuberance for life that can be contagious. I lead a
healthy active life in which I am always seeking more balance.
Recently I have come to realize the importance and wonder of sleep!
I appreciate those who think about how his/her life fits into a
greater context and I get along best with those who laugh at
themselves and who encourage me to do the same.
I will swim/surf in any cold body of water but I'll never say no to
I have been single for a good stint and have lived fully in my
independence. I desire meaningful connection in the physical,
soulful, playful, and partnership realms. I am not looking for a
man to fit into a "package" I create....quite the contrary....I am
excited to co-create. Chemistry is something that flows naturally
when we are patient and curious. I welcome the opportunity to make
myself vulnerable with one who is also excited to do the same.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- Making sure the next generation is equipped with the critical
thinking skills, self confidence, and compassion to take the risks
necessary to make positive change
- helping people live more comfortably in their bodies:
- learning as many languages as my brain can keep organized
- finding pleasure in simplicity
- getting to and in the ocean as much my time and little carrito
- laughing a lot
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting the attention of hormone engulfed teenagers without saying
a word, telling animated stories, laughing at your animated
stories, being flexible, getting spiders out of the house without
hurting them, recognizing my subjectivity, tripping and recovering
gracefully, bringing people together, getting dirty, cleaning up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I move with grace, I laugh often, great booty (disclaimer: my
housemate told me to write this...he said it would be unfair to not
include it, not my idea as I am not the best at self-promotion)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: a few titles I have enjoyed wholeheartedly: Their Eyes Were
Watching God, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Brief and Wonderous Life
of Oscar Wao, and The Time Traveler's Wife as well as academic
reading, classics, and news. I just finished Finding Mañana,
memoirs about the Mariel Boat lift from Cuba- interesting and
MUSIC: oooofff! this list could go on for days: reggae/dancehall,
Hip Hop (of the conscious political sort), Blues, Jazz, Forro,
Pagode, Samba, MPG, Nueva Trova, Bachata, Son Jarocho.....
FOOD: I eat well as a means to take care of myself but also to
support local and sustainable agriculture. I love to eat out as
much as I like to try new recipes at home....food brings people
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
being weightless in water/a surfboard
a hoodie/flip flops/a pair of heels
Wide open space
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-too much....all the while reminding myself to just be
-tides, wind, swell, swell direction and the combination of all
-if I should drink coffee or opt for tea
-changes that can faciliate living out of the city and closer to
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sharing dinner, biking over hill and dale, reading a book, at a
dance performance, watching a movie, turning in early to get to the
ocean first thing in the morning
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have secrets...they are to be shared intimately.
You should message me if
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you want to meet one another in the flesh....I am not one for
umpteen messages back and forth-let's meet and see if our curiosity
grows in person.
you want a partner for weekend getaways, to surf ocean waves,
camping in the redwoods, to explore a new city, dance the night
away, and/or to ride bikes to any destination.
you are curious about life and living and have some sort of
if you have a selfie of your shirtless torso please don't message
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