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aheartseeker

65 / F / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:45pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
This heartthrob seeker with a black belt in cuddling and an open heart, hopes to connect with an affectionate, energetic, kind, bright man of integrity for a meaningful, playful relationship.
I'm blessed with a kind, affectionate constitution, an ardent intellectual curiosity, a love of new experiences and a robust sense of humor and playfulness.
What I’m doing with my life
As a psychotherapist and social activist, I am committed to social justice causes. I am a rabid NPR listener and a member of a peace and justice organization.
I’m really good at
...enjoying the world around me. As a "culture vulture" by nature, I enjoy all forms of cultural activities: music - folk/blues/jazz, dance, theater, comedy, going to lectures, museums, movies, sharing good restaurant fare with friends, as well as looking for treasures at garage sales/junk stores. Love spontaneous outings, exploring new venues and unknown hideaways, taking walks and low-key hiking. Have been a swing and zydeco dancer in the recent past. Recently, I've learned how to make jewelry.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite movies: Wizard of Oz; A Thousand Clowns; The Graduate; Bagdad Cafe; The Apostle. Recent favorites: Moonrise Kingdom; Beasts of the Southern Wild; The Master.
Books: A Confederacy of Dunces; She's Come Undone; The Kite Runner; West with the Nite; books by: B. Kingsolver; Anne Tyler; Jodi Picoult, Wally Lamb.
The six things I could never do without
my son and family; the ability to laugh (esp. at myself); my beloved friends, love, another day.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how precious the bonds are to each other; the fleeting nature of time; when I'm finally going to do the dishes...
On a typical Friday night I am
either enjoying the company of friends, going to a music performance, or having a quiet night at home making jewelry, watching a favorite tv show or reading...
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 58–70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You share similar values and interests; are someone who finds relationship life stimulating and enriching. MUST HAVES: an open heart, be a good communicator, have a spirited nature and a willingness to build a deep, meaningful relationship. DEAL BREAKERS: arrogance (!), smokers, cell phone addicts, intimacy avoiders. Extra points for niteowls, burly physiques and those with a riotous sense of humor... Taking applications now...