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ahighfill

39 F San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 10
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am involved in three polyamorous relationships with three incredible men (BatCountryRzdnt, JohnCarl2012, and one who is not on okc). I am a worker and a healer in the realm of sacred sexuality and am fascinated with opportunities to enrich my soul. I enjoy any opportunity to discuss philosophy, politics, healing - you name it! The deeper the better, I am almost completely incapable of keeping any kind of communication on a surface level.
What I’m doing with my life
Designing, connecting with others, walking my path as I see it laid out before me.
I’m really good at
Listening, talking, designing, linear thinking, non-linear thinking, healing, finding ways to connect to others and self.
The first things people usually notice about me
My warmth and kindness, followed by my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read. I was raised on sci-fi (Star Trek, Star Wars, Robert A. Heinlein, Orson Scott Card), Anne Rice, Tom Robbins, Kurt Vonnegut, Piers Anthony, stuff like that. I got really into Reinaldo Arenas for a while. I'm reading Confessions of an Economic Hitman now, before that I read Reading Lolita in Tehran, A Whole New Mind and Tales of the City.

Music: The Misfits, The Smiths, The Cure, Beastie Boys, Pharcyde, Jamiroquai, WAR, Curtis Mayfield, The Doors, The Doobie Brothers, The Grateful Dead, Sergio Mendez, Marvin Gaye, Leonard Cohen, The Ramones, The Clash, Adam Ant, Pink Floyd, Enanitos Verdes, Jackie Green, Scissor Sisters, Ringside...

I haven't had tv since I've been in the city and the break from it is actually really nice. But thanks to the internet, I still manage to catch Rachel Maddow everyday and Democracy Now pretty often.
The six things I could never do without
Family
Friends
Love
Learning
Compassion
Spirit
I spend a lot of time thinking about
self-analysis and my place in this life...
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends or in relaxing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm looking for someone who I'm interested in getting to know over a long-ish period of time, and who is interested in getting to know me. I'm not really looking for casual, just want to find someone who appreciates me and who I appreciate. Someone who sees all the best things about me and lets me shine, and maybe sees the worst things about me too and still adores me.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 26–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are interested in having conversations that can go a little deeper. I'm a thinker, a talker and a listener, so if you also fit that description we would probably have a great time.

I generally tend to date men of color and men who were born in the 70's, but I'm open to all men.