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41 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I suppose I could, to avoid any paralyzing confusion, say that I'm: Mexican/Italian/German/Irish/Spanish! Born and raised in LA.

I'm a very loyal, passionate pain in the ass. I'm not perfect but am perfectly me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I do props and set dressing for TV. I am also a singer/musician/former tattoo artist (with no tattoos) /art school brat/sometime professional jazz drummer, animals lover.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing, drumming, playing guitar, cooking
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes, I've been told

I take some time to get to know. I am emotionally available, present, and intellectually curious about the world and the people I meet. It is much nicer to live your life being pleasantly surprised by people rather than constantly disappointed. Appearances and first impressions can be deceiving as much as we might try and deny it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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DH Lawrence (my fave by a mile) , Bukowski, Faulkner, Kafka, Poe, Isabel Allende, Harold Pinter, John Fowles, and on and on

Music: Michael Jackson! The Jackson 5, Elvis, Chuck Berry, Miles Davis, Harry Nilsson, Zappa/Mothers, WAR, Talking Heads, Nina Simone, Mingus, The Temptations, Shocking Blue, Charles Lloyd, The Cure, Townes Van Zandt, Christian Death (both Rozz AND Valor) Roy Orbison, The Stones, AC/DC, Dylan, New Order, Joy Division (yes, in that order) Can, Brian Eno, Roxy Music, Bryan Ferry, Stevie Wonder, Donny Hathaway, Nico, Siouxie And The Banshees, The Cure, Bauhaus, Cat Power, Spoon, Velvet Underground, Suicide, The Beach Boys, Mazzy Star, The Clash, The Ramones, Hall And Oats, Bowie, Small Faces, Faces, Cat Power, Johnny Cash, Willie, Waylon, Chuck Berry, Elvis, Gene Vincent, Buddy Holly, Ricky Nelson, Bach, Satie, Skynard, Willie, Waylon, Merle, Neril Diamond, Neil Young, Crazy Horse, The Band, Palace Brothers... just to name a few

My favorite films ever are Paris Texas, Barry Lyndon, and Dawn Of The Dead (1978)

I love movies but the amount of time we spend glued to various screens 24/7 makes me less inclined.

Classic Euro Horror and Film Noir are my fave genres

Having listed all this: I am NOT looking for someone with the exact same tastes as mine. I want someone who can turn me onto new things :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why the same guy with the beard shows up in at least one of nearly everyone's pics on here.

Humanity/the world at large. It pays not to be concerned with merely your own little personal universe

Books!!! OK, so we're getting rid of bookstores and libraries so that the only people with ready access to books will be those who can afford a kindle (and to keep it powered up) and who have an actual address for a book to be shipped to??

! I don't like!

Why is everyone in LA single? All these amazing, beautiful, dynamic people, all looking for the exact same elusive thing that they never really want when they find it anyway....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
there's no such thing :)

but if there is: I'm either listening to records, out and about, reading/writing, or at my studio working away :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That my goal for being on this site is pretty naive.....

I really just want to meet one cool person, we'll have some laughs, get along great, we'll make plans to see each other again very soon and it will go nicely from there and I'll get to shut this damn profile down once and for all.... Extremely naive, I know ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. might be impressed that I had beers with Bukowski!

..... You've read my profile, looked at my (accurate and current) pictures and have a feeling there will be genuine interest on your part ...... Please do not meet me as part of some social experiment. Thank you.

Lastly: racists, right-wingers, homophobes: please keep as far away as possible.

So that's enough speech making from me. Let's grab a mellow drink and stop taking this shit so seriously :)

And lookie-loos: it's OK to say hi! Or if not, at least throw me some peanuts.

And please don't write me if you're lying about your age.... Please. It's a chemistry killing variable.