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46 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:31am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Currently in an open relationship and have the opportunity to explore new perspectives. My partner is fully aware that I am on this site and I periodically keep her up to date: nothing is a secret. I am looking for a woman that I can develop a meaningful connection (that is not to exclude the possibility of meeting someone just to be physically involved with, but there always has to be the right chemistry).

ME: I would describe myself as passionate, a semi-avid movie buff, health conscious (somewhat careful with what and where I eat. I usually try to support local small businesses. I love to explore new places to eat and drink), semi-active (I always enjoy hiking/backpacking trips; I used to ride my bike quite a lot, back in the day, but will occasionally get back on the saddle. I also love to swim! I would consider myself athletic. C'mon, have you not seen my 'Baywatch' photo?), having a youthful and playful nature (I enjoy a good laugh and as my photos indicate, I look younger than my age dictates. Those photos are fairly recent and, currently, I have grown out my locks to donate), love to cook, and I am always trying to improve upon the person I am. Overall, I think I'm a pretty decent guy to hangout with.

YOU: comfortable with engaging with someone involved in an open-relationship (this could take the form of grabbing a cup of coffee or some snack and having a chat and/or progress into some part-time canoodling), enjoy getting outdoors and heading to the mountains (I love the Olympic Peninsula) or taking a drive, enjoy exploring new places to eat and drink, are also comfortable with hanging at home and watching a movie, love to have stimulating conversations (even those that seem uncomfortable, but are able to communicate in positive manner without being demeaning), and may not necessarily share the same views and enjoy the same things, but is willing to step out of your comfort zone.

If this appeals to your sensibilities and are interested in having a chat, send me a message and see what happens!
What I’m doing with my life
-Embarking on a new chapter in self-exploration and socialization.
-Working to help others on a daily basis.
-Enjoying the lessons life has put in front of me.
I’m really good at
-laughing and making people laugh
-learning things quickly
-things that entail using my hands
The first things people usually notice about me
"Nice chops!"
"What, you have hair?"
"You're how old?!"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOK: fiction: Blood Meridian by Cormac McCarthy (the battle scene is epic); non-fiction: several
MOVIE: City of God, Harakiri, whatever, the list goes on.....
MUSIC: JJ Cale, Augustus Pablo, John Prine, Feist, all kinds!
FOOD: honest, clean, and tasty
The six things I could never do without
-something to read
-the forest
-my hands
-a shower
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what to eat; where to eat; what can I cook that will be tasty
On a typical Friday night I am
maybe working; maybe not.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you: 1) have no qualms with hanging out with someone already involved in a relationship; 2) willing to try something different; 3) allow for things to happen; 4) likes to eat good food, chat, explore, whatever....
send me a line and we'll go from there.