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ailuoxi1990

25 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 26
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, Middle Eastern
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Arabic (Okay)

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My self-summary
Alright Mr. okcupid, you caught me at a good time and place. I'm typing this in my room and listening to the most entrancing, exotic music. That's something you should know about me off the bat. I enjoy reveling in the beauty of it all. That makes me a bit of a romantic I guess.
And yet on another level I battle the other end of me, the cynic, the jaded one. People often assume I'm much older than I actually am. Yes, there is bad in the world. Yes, yes, a thousand times yes there is almost a futility in it all considering the scale of it. But fuck that noise. As a cool dude once said, "Live life with a defiant smile and a raised middle finger." Sounds good to me!
So yes, Mr. Okcupid, as a man, I am a sexual being. But to quote another hero of mine, "I am not like other men." I'm not a random hookup. I've been rediscovering what passion means to me for the last ten months, and I want to move from fun yet casual to fun and passion and free. What does this mean, okcupid? It means that what if the sex was already a given? How would I want our meetings and encounters to be like? I don't know about you, but I like to have fun. I like to flirt and banter and maybe philosophize. Over drinks. Tea drinks. Beer drinks. Rarely sloppy though.
I will say that I do regular calisthetics and hot yoga. That's all I'm gonna say about that. Because people that talk about working out all the time are kind of annoying.
What are my pleasures? I enjoy biking by the trail leading to the verrazano bridge as the sun goes down. I enjoy being with friends and talking, eating, drinking. I like the intimacy of smaller groups.
What I’m doing with my life
Being wicked. It's important be wicked sometimes so we can remind ourselves that there is more to life than stuff. Life is people. Life is feelings. Life is laughter.

I try to go to comedy clubs as often as I can, because it's good for the soul.
I've been messing with gymnastics and yoga recently... Feeling limber!
I’m really good at
Living life with a defiant smile and a raised middle finger.
The first things people usually notice about me
My cheshire cat grin and exotic features. My complexion is just varied enough to pass for most ethnicities.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love learning to cook and eating street food. I think food is a big part of identity.
The Whitest Kids u Know, Cosmos, Dave Attell. Elementary is a damn fine show n

Lets talk books: I read a bunch of em.
The six things I could never do without
independence
Comedy
Books
Friends
Thinking
Freedom of expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How big is the universe? How did the world begin? What the hell is reality? What is this whole being fulfilled thing is all about? What is the best breakfast possible? How versatile is duck fat for cooking? How the fuck did Mamoun's make their shawarma so crispy and juicy and delicious?
I also fantasize about my retirement: opening and managing a comedy club in Brooklyn that doesn't suck.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was six years old, I was a notorious for setting off fireworks, peeing on cars, and climbing trees.
I was that kid in middle school who ate weird things on a dare.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Are you an active reader? I mean of books. If that's the case, that's a plus! I try to read more now that I'm out of college.

I'm becoming more and more conscious of how much television I actually watch. So yes, that makes me a hypocrite on some level. Maybe you watch lots of tv too. That's okay. Let's work together to get our asses off the couch together. We might even like it. :D

Do you find that you are some one who pauses right in the middle of it all to admire something cool or beautiful or wondrous? When someone asks and you explain, they really don't understand what you mean? Cool. We can possibly get along.

Do you flout standard social norms and practices or associate with such people, and yet also can quite easily camouflage yourself in mainstream society, while perhaps laughing about it? Cool cool.

Are you passionate? Are you passionate? Are you passionate? That's probably one of my most important traits for me I guess. Are you mischievous? I love laughter and playfulness.

Do you have some measure of an idea of what you want to do with your life? Or are you at least actively trying to figure that out? Because I've come to realize looking back at my history, I've always found ambitious and independent women to be among the coolest. It's difficult for me to explain why, but on the one hand its a feeling of admiration and on the other hand there is desire, desire to be be with someone so is so assertive and composed while making it seem so easy, and to learn. Huh. I guess reallly what I find sexy is the prospect that I am going to learn about something from someone who is way better at it than me. :P

Cool cool cool.