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25 New York, NY Genderfluid, Non-binary

Genderfluid, Non-binary

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating

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5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Full figured
Other and it’s important
High school
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm Pax Arcadia Felidae. Call me Cady, Pax or whatever the fuck you want. I've gone by so many names it's really not fair to expect anyone to remember what I call myself at any given time.

Things that define me:
Cyberpunk and biopunk/goth
Polyamorous, pansexual, and genderqueer
Demisexual (you'd think it contradicts the above, but it really doesn't. . .)
Obsessive-compulsive and otherwise batshit insane
Unapologetic asshole
and many more. . .

I subscribe to many ideals which are commonly considered conflicting. My problem, certainly not yours.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring out what to do with my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Way too many things, which is probably the main reason I haven't yet done the above. Too many possibilities, although I have two main ones that I've almost settled on. Hell, maybe I'll do both. Be a doctor in space.
The first things people usually notice about me
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If I'm sober: I look like a deer caught in headlights if I don't know you, but for some reason you want to get to know me. At least that's what I assume, cause you refuse to leave me the hell alone.

Tripping or otherwise intoxicated: You're my new best friend for right now because I love everyone and you're all my friends, I've just told you my whole life story, and I've just either totally creeped you out or made you oddly comfortable opening up to.

Either or: I'm also articulate, incredibly intense, and a mix of scary weird and mesmerizing weird.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Kushiel's Legacy, Ender's Saga, Harry Potter, Twilight, the Dark Tower, Ayn Rand, and just about anything nonfiction, fantasy, or scifi. I also like graphic novels, but preferably of the manga variety. Oh, and in case it wasn't obvious from the multiple references including my screen name, I really like Homestuck.

Movies: Yes please.

Shows: Grey's Anatomy, Firefly, True Blood, Stargate SG:1 and Atlantis(not to say that I don't like SGU, just haven't seen it yet), Fullmetal Alchemist and FMA Brotherhood, Higurashi no Naku Koro ni, Castle, Supernatural, Doctor Who, Sherlock, and many others which I don't care to dredge up out of my brain right now and will probably beat myself up later for forgetting.

Music: Yes please. I like literally every genre, although I can be very snobby about quality. Preferred genres are rock, metal, electronic, indie, and world.

Food: I like meat. Take that however you want, although I'm speaking of the animal variety. I like meat to the point of considering myself damn near carnivorous. Preferably rare or warm raw beef, but I like it all. Beef is the only one I'll mess around with though, everything else has to be FULLY cooked.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love(not necessarily romantic)
My moirail and my kismesis
My cats
My computer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the meaning of life. Unfortunately, that was deadly serious.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either studying or playing WoW. Feel free to let me know if you want to do either together. Verhanna/61 NE Druid/Garona
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That there is nothing I won't talk about. Srslytho, that my deepest desire is for a 'partner in crime' who will become my matesprit and save the world with me-a relationship interspersed with awesome adventures and characterized by a mutual lust for life. This is what passes for 'private' because I tend to come off as very cold and I like it that way. I'm actually very warm inside, but I don't like admitting it cause people tend to take advantage. Doesn't make me any less of an asshole though.
You should message me if
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It's not so much if you should message me. I do not give a damn who messages me. If you expect a response, you should be open, sincere, and speak with proper capitalization or punctuation unless you are making a reference, joke, or other situation in which txtspeak or l33tspeak is anything but annoying.

And for the love of all the gods don't send me a picture of your genitals unless I ask for one. That will almost definitely guarantee that I don't answer you.

Also, as stated above I am an unapologetic asshole. Unless you have a thick skin, prepare for the possibility that I'm in a bad mood and will tear you a new one because fuck Mondays or a similarly irrelevant reason. It's part of my testing process. I don't bother befriend or fuck pussies. Unless they're the type of pussy between a girl's legs. If you're easily offended don't bother message me unless you're feeling particularly masochistic.