By day I am a polite and well balanced individual, and I could hold a seamless conversation with your parents about gardening and the weather (or whatever shit they like). However to cut to the chase by night (and sometimes in the day too) I like experimenting with some more creative things in the bedroom. Specifically we should talk if you enjoy the idea of bondage, submission, or other deviances.

I used to think I was more of a submissive, but I have come to like taking control, and the pleasure I can bring in that role. (However, if you insist that I should get tied up first I can work with that...)

I consider myself a feminist and I do not specifically find degrading women arousing, but rather I enjoy the exploration of the power dynamics between two people, and how that exchange of power and trust can access something...
...well something fun!

(I am also English, apparently my accent in an asset over here...)

Photography, writing, directing, (nothing successful yet)... and a post doc that provides a consistent income .

Exercising self control and providing multiple orgasms.

My commanding presence... maybe...
Or my perfectly chiselled facial features that you will have to ask me to see...

I have not read 50 shades of grey, and I have no intention of doing so.... just thought I'd get that out there.

Your obedience!

Unusual sexual scenarios.

I'll leave it to your imagination...

Well there's the fact I'm into bdsm... but you probably figured that out already. I also into food sex and getting into a mess, so there's some more information for you...

I am also a normal(ish) human, and have a real life that isn't primarily motivated by sex... but where is that going to get you on the internet?

You are looking for a safe pair of hands with which to explore those fantasies you have always secretly entertained. I would never force anyone do something they are unhappy with, and I don't necessarily expect people to leap straight into sex fantasy mode either. I'm happy to get to know you, and wait until you feel comfortable with me.

Normal dating is fine too, just consider this profile an over the top ice breaker...