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34 Berkeley, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 9:52am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Turkish (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Originally from Istanbul, Turkey, I spent some years on the East Coast and then moved to Berkeley for grad school in 2005. I am an engineer by training but took a turn in career direction into public health some years ago and am now working on water and health related research. I absolutely love what I do and my research takes me abroad often. I really care about the work I do, and I love that my job lets me travel, meet people, learn languages and try to find my footing in very unfamiliar settings, all of which are among my favorite things to do in life.

I absolutely love the outdoors. Hiking, camping, going for a run at Lake Merritt, swimming or pretty much anything done outdoors always puts me in a good mood (the exceptions are snow-related activities and sports that require hand-eye coordination - I am *spectacularly* bad at them).

I love dancing, and know and/or can fake enough steps to any dance to have a good time without being particularly good at any of them. I also like playing the guitar and singing, and often find myself humming a song or other.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a post-doc and focus a lot of time and energy on my research. I travel a lot, both for work and for fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Adapting. Being positive. Learning languages. Coming through for friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They notice the accent but can't place it. Also, that I speak fast (really fast) and laugh often.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy non-fiction and have a soft spot for history and sciency things.

I am biased in favor of foreign movies (The Lives of Others, All About My Mother, Head On to list a few). I am pretty illiterate when it comes to shows but thanks to the internet I do watch (and love) Game of Thrones and the occasional Turkish soap opera.

I was a Beatles fan as a teenager (and still have a special place in my heart for them). I am not hugely up to speed on contemporary music and like the older stuff (60s, 70s). Enjoy the 80s too, mostly to dance to. I like dancing to Latin and swing beats as well. I love love love old school jazz, and Balkan/Rebetiko tunes melt my heart.

My cooking is Mediterranean-ish and I can probably happily live for a *very* long time on feta, tomatoes and olive oil. I have vegetarian tendencies but hugely appreciate food in all forms and shapes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have found that I can give up a lot of things and not really mind. The absolute must is companionship from friends and family. Good food is pretty hard to give up. I would probably also have a hard time living in a place without a fair number of sunny/warm days and a water body (sea, ocean, lake, river, anything).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work, Istanbul, the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having friends over for dinner or going out in the city but I enjoy taking it easy at home with a movie or book as well. And occasionally I find myself doing work - it happens.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Umm, private thing I am willing to admit to anonymous strangers??
You should message me if
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You are a genuine, curious and active guy (and have something more to say than just "hey, how r u?" - I don't know how to respond to those). I think we are more likely to get along if you like the outdoors and have a thing for traveling, but in the end I think what matters most is being able to have good conversation (and see if the chemistry works out from there). I don't like prolonged back and forths over e-mail and I particularly dislike instant messaging - as much fun as anonymous chatter may be, I would just much much rather chat in person over a cup of tea.

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