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35 Rochester, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 5:57pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I've written this a few times and I'll be frank. Well, Frank might be the guy you hit up after you realize you killed two precious minutes reading this... I'm Ryan. Sorry, bad joke... Until you meet Frank.

I am funny, I swear it. I am witty. I am intelligent and far too introspective. I think too much about situations that call for impetuousness and I'm arrogant enough to be impetuous in times where I might take a second beat. I'm as honest a person as you're going to find because I am not afraid of being myself. I am very laid back but intense about the things that matter to me.

All of this is really not the contradiction it seems... I honestly can't think of another way to describe me. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I get up, fed the critters and work. I'm trying to get established in a new position at the moment. Here and there I grab a drink, play some cards and enjoy whatever I'm doing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh... and noticing things... and overthinking things... like this profile.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People say my eyes are very blue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music is literally across the board (except country... of course). Right now I'm heavy on NPR and Beats Antique, Wax Tailor, Soul Coughing, Tom Waits... really anything that's interesting. Lyrically or musically.

I haven't watched network TV in forever, but I enjoy netflix and the sporting events of whatever nature (I do not yell at the TV in most cases... and all my remotes are unbroken)

I enjoy reading but time has not been permitting. Very sad.

I cook a TON, like any good Italian should. I bake my own bread, make my own sauce and my own pasta. I enjoy meat, but eat more vegetables than anything. The Public Market is the greatest thing ever. If I can't conceive how to make something in theory, I generally won't rush to eat it. Though Taco Bell is awesome... just awesome.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wikipedia - Resources cited, of course.
Not with serial killer implication, but a good kitchen knife... bad knives are the scourge of my world...
Sense of reason
My car?
Winter... with limits... when we start talking in 10-20 degrees Kelvin, I balk.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I tend to notice alot of things going on around me. I don't know if it's that I'm bored or just hyper-aware, but if it's some thing I don't need to know, I'll notice it. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually head out to the bar I hang out at. Tiny joint in the city. We play euchre, watch Jeopardy and pontificate. It is a real-life Cheers in alot of senses.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I killed a guy once...

Ok, I didn't do that. My deep dark secrets are not that ridiculous and who can afford the energy to keep track of all their wheeling and dealings? I'm a pretty open person though if someone wants to ask.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for someone who can carry a conversation and has a good sense of humor.

Bottom-line is be realistically happy and enjoy who you are, and I will too.

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