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35 Rochester, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 26
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About me.... I think outside the box and then if there's some magical box encompassing that one, maybe that one too. I think laughter sets some huge dopamine production response for me, so I try to be funny... I like to think I am. I try to be aware and caring. I'm an optimist but I'm a realist too. I don't know how to really describe me. I'm not a huge materialist and I don't have a undying love of all things wealth. I live to enjoy life, however I get there.

I'm creeped out by the massive chipmunks in the commercial I'm watching.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Things are pretty good right now. I'm tearing apart my house. My job pays me American money. My car has less rust than most.... I'm easy to please.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh... and noticing things... and overthinking things that I notice. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People say my eyes are very blue.

If you're blind (rendering this useless) and you happen to be listening, my idiotic wit seems to draw attention at times. It's very low-key and very dry but very sharp and a lot of fun.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music is literally across the board (except country... of course). Right now I'm heavy on NPR and Beats Antique, Wax Tailor, Soul Coughing, Tom Waits... really anything that's interesting. Lyrically or musically.

I haven't watched network TV in forever, but I enjoy netflix and the sporting events of whatever nature (I do not yell at the TV in most cases... and all my remotes are unbroken)

I enjoy reading but time has not been permitting. Very sad.

I cook a TON, like any good Italian should. I bake my own bread, make my own sauce and my own pasta. I enjoy meat, but eat more vegetables than anything. The Public Market is the greatest thing ever. If I can't conceive how to make something in theory, I generally won't rush to eat it. Though Taco Bell is awesome... just awesome.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wikipedia - Resources cited, of course.
Not with serial killer implication, but a good kitchen knife... bad knives are the scourge of my world...
Sense of reason
Walking, which is oddly basic but being without for a month has made me appreciate it way more than I thought.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I tend to notice alot of things going on around me. I don't know if it's that I'm bored or just hyper-aware, but it gets me off onto a mess of tangents.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually head out to the bar I hang out at. Tiny joint in the city. We play euchre, watch Jeopardy and pontificate. It is a real-life Cheers in alot of senses.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I killed a guy once...

Ok, I didn't do that. My deep dark secrets are not that ridiculous and who can afford the energy to keep track of all their wheeling and dealings? I'm a pretty open person though if someone wants to ask.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm looking for someone who can carry a conversation and has a good sense of humor. Someone who is proud of who they are mentally, physically and emotionally. Intelligence and sense of humor are symptoms of each other and are required... or else you will hate me. You realize life isn't about how much you earn or how big one thing is over another. Also, I'm not saying infinite optimism, but if you think everything in your life sucks, then I don't want to be lumped in there. Chill out and enjoy life because I almost always do and it's hard to be with someone who can't.

Bottom-line is enjoy who you are, and I will too.