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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:45am
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Not to get all existential off the top but Buddha said "There is not path to happiness. Happiness is the path." That is the best way to describe how I approach life. I am a fairly intelligent person who is laid back about most things. I know who I am and how much I need laughter from everyone involved to make it through life. I've just realized that I have no idea how much to explain about me here. I'm enamored with the awkwardness that is life (and this profile). I have a good job, a working car and own my house. I know the difference between your/you're and their/they're/there. I understand the chaos a lack of commas can cause. "Let's eat, Grandpa". I have well-cared for pets that I adopted and who truthfully own the house. I dig on creativity in almost any form and if you can debate pointless things with me... bring it.

I do not keep old fingernails in jars nor do I hoard things of no use. I have no secret rooms with conspiracy string between pictures of empty garbage cans. My basement is not a den of horrors. I'm not the guy the internet has taught you to fear. I'm oddly normal and using an online dating site... Here's to hoping you are too (normal... the latter, I think, is sorted). :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well, for a month I'm in between houses until the new one closes and I'm just about to take a new job. Seems like if I'm changing one major thing I might as well run the gamut.

Otherwise I'm just making my way in trying to find a healthy balance in everything. Life, pets, work, friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh... and noticing things... and overthinking things... like this profile.

Also, I'm fantastic at taking someone's leftovers and making something out of it. I hate to throw away food and it's like a mini-Iron Chef.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People say my eyes are very blue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music is literally across the board (except country... of course). Right now I'm heavy on NPR and Beats Antique, Wax Tailor, Soul Coughing, Tom Waits... really anything that's interesting. Lyrically or musically.

I haven't watched network TV in forever, but I enjoy netflix and the sporting events of whatever nature (I do not yell at the TV in most cases... and all my remotes are unbroken)

I enjoy reading but time has not been permitting. Very sad.

I cook a TON, like any good Italian should. I bake my own bread, make my own sauce and my own pasta. I enjoy meat, but eat more vegetables than anything. The Public Market is the greatest thing ever. Usually the rule is if I can't conceive how to make something in theory, I won't rush to eat it. Though Taco Bell is awesome... just awesome.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wikipedia - Resources cited, of course.
Not with serial killer implication, but a good kitchen knife... bad knives are the scourge of my world... a pretty good unfolding story about this right now. Ask away.
Sense of reason
My car?
Winter... I love it with limits... when we start talking in 10-20 degrees Kelvin, I balk.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now it's the new house. Beyond that I'm oddly not concerned about things. I think about what is in front of me and what is really far in the future. The middle ground tends to sort itself out somehow.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually head out to the bar I hang out at. Tiny joint in the city. We play euchre, watch Jeopardy and pontificate. It is a real-life Cheers in many senses.-
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I killed a guy once...

Ok, I didn't do that. My deep dark secrets are not that ridiculous and who can afford the energy to keep track of all their wheeling and dealings? I'm a pretty open person though if someone wants to ask.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for someone who can carry a conversation and has a good sense of humor (probably going to need it).

Bottom-line is be realistically happy and enjoy who you are, and I will too.