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35 M Rochester, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:53pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I've been dancing around this profile for a while now and I'm gonna try this. A friend of mine called me a Fool many years ago and sent this to me. At the risk of going all uber-nerd, here you go.

The Fool is the Neutral, he who stands between Order and Chaos. He is balance. He is whatever gender he chooses, but since I am male I will call him he. He is also damn annoying. The fool is also three-in-one. He is best known as Loki, who is often associated with Chaos, but truly isn't. He is the one whose response to the serious, the hopeless, and the destructive is to moon them. If he falls off a cliff he will enjoy the view all the way down, and with his last ounce of life try to twist his body to leave the most confusing/obscene chalk outline. He laughs at life, and considers it the most worthy goal to get others to laugh with him (or at him... as long as they are laughing). He is the bringer of chaos to order, but just as importantly the bringer of order to chaos. He always roots for the underdog even when the underdog may be swapping sides. But the Fool is also the uncle who slips you $10 when your dad isn't looking. He is the kindly local priest/witch/street musician who provides a friendly ear and a strong shoulder to dampen. He will be your backup, your medic, your adviser, but ultimately he knows only you can fight your battles. That said, he will be there to pull you out if you go in under your head. The Fool is also Prometheus, the one who defied the gods to bring fire to mankind and gladly suffered the punishment. For he is the wisdom bringer, the creator, Odin the shaman who hung on Yggdrasil upside-down for 9 days and nights to learn the secrets of the runes, and gave them as a gift to us. But he is a foolish fool because he enjoys the image of the tragic hero of the Norse and Shakespearean sagas and even as he knows it is foolish and pointless, he does it anyway because he is too afraid to look into the maelstrom within to find the true source of knowledge, yet is the only one brave enough to do it. And if you understand the reason that isn't a paradox, then you are well along the way of understanding the fool. And it is because you have been listening to him who is the god of storytellers, who combines all three aspects to create that which is both entertaining and educational.
What I’m doing with my life
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Things are pretty cool right now. I'm tearing apart my house. My job pays me American money. My car has less rust than most.... I'm easy to please.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh... and noticing things... and overthinking things that I notice. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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People say my eyes are very blue.

If you're blind (rendering this useless) and you happen to be listening, my idiotic wit seems to draw attention at times. It's very low-key and very dry but very sharp and a lot of fun.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music is literally across the board (except country... of course). Right now I'm heavy on NPR and Beats Antique, Wax Tailor, Soul Coughing, Tom Waits... really anything that's interesting. Lyrically or musically.

I haven't watched network TV in forever, but I enjoy netflix and the sporting events of whatever nature (I do not yell at the TV in most cases... and all my remotes are unbroken)

I enjoy reading but time has not been permitting. Very sad.

I cook a TON, like any good Italian should. I bake my own bread, make my own sauce and my own pasta. Chili, soup, salad dressings and so forth. I enjoy meat, but eat more vegetables than anything. The Public Market is the greatest thing ever. If I can't conceive how to make something in theory with using basic ingredients, I generally won't rush to eat it. Though Taco Bell is awesome... just awesome.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wikipedia - Resources cited, of course.
A good Santuko Knife... bad knives are the scourge of my world..
Sense of reason
Walking, which is oddly basic but being without for a month has made me appreciate it way more than I thought.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I tend to notice alot of things going on around me. I don't know if it's that I'm bored or just hyper-aware, but it gets me off onto a mess of tangents. I love it but it's such an annoyance at times. If I get on Wiki.... forget it. I have 12 pages open before I'm done with the first article.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually head out to the bar I hang out at. Tiny joint in the city. We play euchre, watch Jeopardy and pontificate. It is a real-life Cheers in alot of senses.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I killed a guy once...

Ok, I didn't do that. My deep dark secrets are not that ridiculous and who can afford the energy to keep track of all their wheeling and dealings? I'm a pretty open person though if someone wants to ask.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for someone who can carry a conversation and has a good sense of humor. Someone who is proud of who they are mentally, physically and emotionally. Intelligence and sense of humor are symptoms of each other and are required... or else you will hate me. You realize life isn't about how much you earn or how big one thing is over another. Also, I'm not saying infinite optimism, but if you think everything in your life sucks, then I don't want to be lumped in there. Chill out and enjoy life because I almost always do and it's hard to be with someone who can't.

Bottom-line is enjoy who you are, and I will too.