36 Rochester, NY
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My self-summary
Not to get all existential off the top but Buddha said "There is no path to happiness. Happiness is the path." That is the best way to describe how I approach life. Relaxed with a touch of Italian fire.

I do not keep old fingernails, I have no secret rooms with conspiracy string between pictures of empty garbage cans. My basement is not a den of horrors, though it is under-furnished. I'm not the guy the internet has taught you to fear. I'm oddly normal and using an online dating site... Here's to hoping you are too (normal... the latter, I think, is sorted). :)
What I’m doing with my life
New house, new job... So not much... :)
I’m really good at
Making people laugh... and noticing things... and overthinking things... like this profile.

Also, I'm fantastic at taking someone's leftovers and making something out of it. I hate to throw away food and it's like a mini-Iron Chef.
The first things people usually notice about me
People say my eyes are very blue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music is literally across the board (except country... of course). Right now I'm heavy on NPR and Beats Antique, Wax Tailor, Soul Coughing, Tom Waits... really anything that's interesting. Lyrically or musically.

I haven't watched network TV in forever, but I enjoy netflix and the sporting events of whatever nature (I do not yell at the TV in most cases... and all my remotes are unbroken)

I enjoy reading but time has not been permitting. Very sad.

I cook a TON, like any good Italian should. I bake my own bread, make my own sauce and my own pasta. I enjoy meat, but eat more vegetables than anything. The Public Market is the greatest thing ever. Usually the rule is if I can't conceive how to make something in theory, I won't rush to eat it. Though Taco Bell is awesome... just awesome.
The six things I could never do without
A proper chef's knife.
Sense of reason
My car?
Winter... I love it with limits... when we start talking in 10-20 degrees Kelvin, I balk.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Random projects around the house, right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Dunno... What do you want to do? As long as I don't have to dance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I killed a guy once...

Ok, I didn't do that. My deep dark secrets are not that ridiculous and who can afford the energy to keep track of all their wheeling and dealings? I'm a pretty open person though if someone wants to ask.
You should message me if
I'm looking for someone who can carry a conversation and has a good sense of humor (probably going to need it).

Bottom-line is be realistically happy, enjoy who you are, and I will too.