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aiuli

44 / F / Straight / Single

Helsinki, Finland

Her Details

Last Online
May 1
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.56m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Finnish (Okay)

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My self-summary
If you look for casual sex, read no further- it is on some other profile. Now that i saved your time, say thanks and keep on searching.

And if you look for a real life partner, you are welcome :)

My friends say I am a warm person, affectionate, loyal and open minded. They also say that i am bit shy till i warm up. In addition, I consider myself balanced, positive and stable. I am active, educated and kind.

I love what i do, and i do plenty of things- art comes first, sports next. So not in order, i play golf, ski, swim, practice martial art, go to museums, ballet, opera, classical and pop concerts and all kind of happenings. I also travel abroad several times a year. I enjoy discovering new places and positive and balanced people. I also meditate, almost daily for now.

I am here to find a soulmate to share small and big things together, to laugh together and lend a shoulder when the situation gets tough.

I am at my best with outgoing men, tolerant and warm, who can laugh, listen and talk. An open minded, positive and active man who enjoys company and closeness and is comfortable receiving affection.
Age is not an issue, if our energies, intentions and lifestyles match .
If you recognize yourself, I will be happy to hear from you !
I am mostly an outdoor person, ready to try new things. I love nature, sea, snow, mountains, the forest and all activities associated with these.
Calm evenings at home are equally appreciated, with a good book or in good company.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it the best i know- going to cultural events, listening to music, to radio, traveling, making friends, getting in touch, staying in touch with relevant people , reading self development books and mangas, going out, trying new restaurants, trying to cook asian foods, training.

Figuring what i want to do next.
Working part time as entrepreneur, and part time in media- the love of my life.
I’m really good at
Asking questions.seeing the good in people.spotting the people I should stay away from. comforting people and make them feel valuable. organizing stuff, all kind of stuff. handicrafts. photography and writing. finding the good food. genuinely smiling to strangers. being where the fun is. standing up for myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
That will be too much to state all here. As a rule, everything that is good quality stuff.
I have a soft spot for Asian food and wines, including champagne.
I go for pretty much everything excluding loud music, horror and violent movies. I don't watch TV , by the way... or rarely.
Enjoy reading personal development books and books that teach me something.
The six things I could never do without
I can very well do without many things, but I can not do without
closeness
friends and family
travel
high quality food
humor
freedom of thinking and speaking
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about, but not obsess over:
-How the world functions.
-Where do we come and how to bring more kindness into the world.
-My family and friends
-How people function and what motivates them
-What is going on in town. How to do the most out of my time
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually with with friends - cooking and listening to radio; or doing sports; or at some cultural event or dining out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still try to save the world, one (small) step at time, one kind word and gesture at a time. I am still romantic and believe in good.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you think we have something in common
you are a kind and respectful guy
you look for the same thing as me