I prefer the quiet life a little bit; I'm much happier doing anything indoors than anything in a bar or club. I admittedly struggle in social situations (in a way, a lot of us here doing online dating probably do to some extent). I'm definitely looking for someone who understands that, and maybe struggles as much as I do. There's a comfort level for me in having someone like me in that respect.
I guarantee some will see the above paragraph as an auspicious sign of weakness; I see it as the opposite, putting this out there.