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ajforce

38 M Jersey City, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
May 8
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hmmm...it's always fun writing an ad about yourself. Here goes...

I am looking to date and hopefully find someone to travel through life with. I have always wanted to find someone I couldn't wait to introduce my family too. That being said I am not a "rush into things" kind of guy. I am more of a "take it slow and get to know kind of chap" I would also love to travel and find someone who would to be an adventurous travel companion. I would really like to meet someone who outside the bedroom is a best friend (OK how do you write these things and not sound corny?...embrace the corny I guess :-)

I enjoy getting dressed up and hitting the town just as much as baggy jammy around the house couch potato times.

At times I am a bit of a clown/goof ball...I like to make people laugh. I have an affinity for cheesy puns, potty humor, and singing just about any song with a really bad Cher affectation. (I am ready for my gong Mr. Demille!)

I am mature with a splash of kid at heart. I love my friends and family. They are very important to me. I have handful friends who are like family to me and my NYC/world would be a much sadder place if they were not in it ;-)

I have an odd combination of introvert and extrovert. I am pretty outgoing but I have a closeted (and sometimes not so closeted) shy person inside me ;-) That being said once I am comfortable with you it's all good. I am welcoming and open to new people and always try to put my best foot forward.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an artsy soul. Pursuing a acting/performance career. I have dabbled in stand up comedy and am currently working on putting together a cabaret styled show. I am also a make up artist.

When not being artsy, I pay the bills working in the medical field as a cat scan tech.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmmm...making people laugh, Cooking, Trivial facts, and Procrastinating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will take a poll and get back to you! ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS:
I am not a huge bookworm. I love books I just have a hard time curling up with one. I tend to do audio books because I can do other things while enjoying. I am a big kid at heart so I love the Harry Potter series. I have actually dabbled into the Star Wars world of novels and love them (when Chewbacca died I was crushed...oops SPOILER ALERT). I just got into The Hunger Game trilogy and it was a track-turner. I also have a geeky love of X-men comic books and animated series (not so much the movies although I did enjoy the most resent prequel flick).

MOVIES (in no particular order):
Star Wars (the original of course, but even the newer films have a place in my heart because I am very loyal), The Incredible Shrinking Woman, Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Too Wong Foo, Torch Song Trilogy, Flash Gordon (so campy and nostalgic), The Nightmare on Elm St. series (particularly 1, 3, 4, and 5) The Toy Story Movies (I cried at the last one...twice), Madonna:Truth or Dare, Who's that Girl...I could go on but you get the basic idea...I am gay, nerdy and campy ;-)

SHOWS:
I love TV marathons...pizza and Sex and the City on DVD there has to be a support group (that's right I am loyal and I still love Sex and the City...notice I have listed this under shows and NOT in movies LOL although if you want to play "Where's Waldo" I am in the first Sex and the City movie for 2.5 seconds)

Sex and the City (did I mention that already?), Battlestar Galactica, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Star Trek Voyager and Enterprise, with a splash of TNG. Just started watching old episodes of The Cosby Show (that man is comedy royalty). Sucker for reality TV shows: Survivor, Project Runway, The Biggest Loser, Americas Next Top Model, Rupauls Drag Race, The Sing Off.

MUSIC:
The Pet Shop Boys, Madonna, Tori Amos, Beth Ditto (Gossip), Kate Bush, Erasure, Marc Almond (Soft Cell), Cyndi Lauper, Showtunes, Dolly Parton (I am not really a county fan but you gotta love Dolly)
Favorite comedian mentions go out to Ms. Sandra Berhard...I adore her!

FOOD:
choice "C" "all of the above" I just love food. If I must narrow.
PIZZA!! My mom's cooking!! Mexican, Indian, I enjoy going out for sushi but I usually get the vegetable rolls I enjoy dipping things in wasabi and having flames shoot out of my nose. I enjoy spicy!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends/family
electricity
laptop
hard drive filled with my favorite movies and music
cheese
fire and water (I know that makes it seven things but I have recently watched a lot of "Survivor" and I have learned the basics ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am very nostalgic, so I spend a lot of time thinking about good memories and my family. I also am a bit of a worry wart (my whole family is I come by it honestly) So, I always find something to worry about LOL
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I work a lot of weekends. I have every other Friday off though so either movie nights or cocktails and catch ups with friends (sometimes both) One of my most recent favorite Friday night regulars has been with a friend of mine and we do: cheesy horror movies, a bottle of wine, and Indian take out. I lovingly dubbed the evening "Boo's, Booze, and Poos" (There is a taste of my potty humor)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
GOOFY:
I was obsessed with Linda Carter as kid (ok still am...I actually met her a couple years back...she was lovely...then she called for security LOL) and I used to dress up like Wonder Woman and I asked my mom if should could sew hooks on all my pants so I could carry a golden lasso around with me (Linda Carter got a kick out of that story...her exact quote "That must have gone over real well in Virginia (where I lived at the time, my dad was in the navy)

MORE SERIOUS:
I battled with weight for many years. In high school I weighed around 300 lbs. Over the years, many fad diets, and a plethora of gym memberships later I am now plateaued between 160 and 165. I would still like to drop another 15/20, but as they say that last 15/20 are the hardest.
You should message me if
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You have read this and think "This guy sounds interesting" and "That's so cute, he dressed up like Wonder Woman" lol