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ajiofaekeaoisej

38 / M / bisexual / Available

San Francisco, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am polymathematic, revolutionary, and unghh.

My Self-Summary

I run with most cylinders firing.

Purposefully audacious, but with an essential dose of tact.

I like to use my toungue multifariously.

I have both a right brain and left brain, and know how to use them in a breadth of capacities.

What I’m doing with my life

Working a modern geeky career while advancing my efforts in music composition, performance & production and martial arts fashion design. These are a few of my favorite things. Except the career; that's simply necessary.

Advocating the ideas of revolutionary socialism.

I’m really good at

Pointing out the obvious. Clarifying what's not obvious. Listening and making constructive arguments.

Improvisational cooking within a framework of the fundamental themes of balance, moisture, heat and nutrition. Preparing for a victory for salt.

Getting my hands dirty. Bicycle mechanics. Making functional gadgetry to solve practical problems in an aesthetic manner.

Getting wrapped up in things. Letting things go.

Aesthetic offerings. Vibrational assessments.

Attention to detail, where it counts. With the exception of spelling. But then I get self-conscious and look it up anyway.

The first things people usually notice about me

My preferred mode of transportation (bicycle) and wardrobe selection. These are not independent variables.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Reading: can't get enough of the Marxist, Lenninst and Trotskyist tradition, labor history, the history of struggle, economics and financial news. Occasional fiction, especially if it comes highly recommended.

Movies: anything black and white (extra points for subtitles). Most people have seen way more movies than I do, so I tend to like watching movies with friends, and follow their interests. Cohen brothers movies are generally awesome, I must say.

I like good music of any genre, but tend to gravitate towards things with craft and profundity but without pretention. Outright Jazz; check out this pandora station if you want to know what I mean: http://www.pandora.com/stations/33ee0de50f49db40fa223d4296321bbdc874869f84047ca8
Classical music like Messiaen, Brahms, Bartok, Ravel, early Schoenberg, late Beethoven, Prokofiev. Rock like Zeppelin, Beatles, ELP, Country Joe & the Fish. I like good dance music and electronica altough I don't pay enough attention to who it is when I'm dancing. Salsa, Funk, Punk. Really, this list could go on and on.

Food: Raw is good. So are bacon-wrapped pork chops and arugula.

The six things I could never do without

I used to think ice cream was essential, but it appears not to be.
passion
timing
balance
taste
purpose
love

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Surplus value extraction, the legacy of Jazz, the future of securitization.

Whether my desires are unconscionably shallow, or how else to consider them.

On a typical Friday night I am

Performing, in one way or another, or trying to keep up with all my productions. Dinner with friends. Romantic intrigue.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am polyamorous (I practice open relationships.) Since this term means many things to many people, here is some clarity:

I am not looking for a life partner, primary partner or marriage partner--where you have exactly one serious relationship to which all others must defer. I belive that every relationship should grow to its natural potential, which clearly cannot occur in this framework.

On the other hand, I am not looking for impersonal, meaning-free or one-night-only encounters. The best relationships are a form of long-term friendships. I have lived with partners before, enjoyed it, and would consider doing so again, although I am not in a rush to do so at the moment.

You should message me if

You are brilliant and want to kick it. Extra points for depth, of all sorts.

If you like exploratory coffee, or want to indulge in a discussion of historical materialism, socialist revolution or why the tritone substitution is really a flavor of the tonic.

If you're fascinated but don't know where to begin, or skeptical but want to be certain.

If you sense that I must have something more personal to share but it's not coming across in this profile.