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ajoyfulflair

62 F Durham, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:46am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Smile thru, and add ajoyfulair to life, my motto. My son's father went to heaven when Justin was 9 months old, and I vowed to make our lives the best I could. My wonderful son is now 31, and we have a special relationship and have had fabulous(7)memories scuba diving together. I did go to seven European countries for my 40th, bought the beach place for my 50th, and went scuba diving in Costa Rica for my 60th birthday. My friends will tell you "what you see is what you get."

I am looking for a thoughtful, caring, affectionate, respectful, spiritual man with integrity, capable of loving just one lady.

Most of all I think we all want someone that makes us feel good, someone who still can be fun, and someone with whom we both can share our strengths and weaknesses. At our age we all have our quirks, lovingkindness and a big kiss is the best encouragement I know. Well maybe I could think of something else.

I grew up with an extended family nearby and frequent social gatherings. We were always at grandma’s house for dinner. My precious grandmother taught me to sew, cook, can, which I still do somewhat, getting ready to can my peaches, beets, and pickles. I'm really not interested in cooking all my life, so it would be helpful if you could cook. Most of all my grandmother taught me to never waste my sweetness. My father would say make plenty of treasured memories.

I really have nothing to prove to a man, and likewise we can just appreciate each other and enjoy being a partner. I think through problems logically first and then think out of the box to creatively solve any challenges in life. Designing and making my next flower garden, just got a load of dirt, what was I thinking?

Lastly, I am a universal learner, stretching out of my comfort zone, Maybe being an Elem Physical Education teacher helped, as they paid me to play in many arenas'. I love to experience the arts, have theatre tickets, and have donated energy @ orphanages for yrs.

I retired from teaching Good Friday, 2013, with 41.4 yrs of dedicated love for children. I am ready to experience many other adventures in life. First time in my life I am a little lost as I am trying to discover what direction my life should take. Ideas to share??
What I’m doing with my life
I've been retired now for 4 months and have worked harder than any time in my life. Now that I am caught up, I may start playing.
I’m really good at
I grew up a building contractors daughter, so I am handy.
I am very creative.
I flower where I am planted.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am in shape, I work with a physical trainer and love it.
Most people notice my friendly smile.
Most men think I am in my early 50's and love my skin.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read lots of book series, Dale Brown, Lee Child,
Joseph Flynn, Vince Flynn, John Locke, John Sandford, Brad Thor, and Stephen Hunter to name a few. I have a season ticket @ DPAC.
The six things I could never do without
God, my health, my son, love, loyalty and
laughing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What project is next, and how I want to play. What fun things can I think of next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Just sold my beach place, soooooo I am looking for the next phase of my life. I am chilling w/ friends....or watching Blue Bloods.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am disease free, and would appreciate the same.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 57–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You love life and still have hope.