Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Because this profile is looking for something specific, I'm putting
up a warning to save hassle for those who don't match it. I more
than likely won't respond if you don't fit the below.
Also in fair warning, I have a full time job, full time school
hours until Dec 2015 (part time after), 1 non primary boyfriend,
and 2 other people who I am seeing on an irregular basis.
Don't waste your time if:
- you currently have children
- you are younger than me (Men specifically)
- you are more than 5 years older than me
- you are monogamous
- you are "open" to trying poly
- you are looking for casual sex
- you are going to send a copy pasted message
- you are going to send a one liner.
I have no problem with any of the above. However, I am looking for
a long term, primary polyamorous partner. These are not necessarily
my requirements for a polyamorous relationship, just for a
Quick about me:
- Introverted but I love to see my friends
- Sci Fi nerd
- Looking at getting my Masters Degree
- Interested in healthy eating and exercise
--- Not an athlete
- Very analytical
- Enjoys music and dance performance
- Enjoys learning about and experiencing other cultures
- No kids
--- I'm not playing hide the veggies in the macaroni
- Tested regularly
- Other partners tested regularly
Things I find attractive:
- Consent culture
- Sci Fi nerds
- Light gamers
- Open minds
- Dominance - specifically with permission
--- Don't expect to be able to give me orders
--- That means treat me with respect and like an equal first
- Slightly taller than me. I like heels. (Men)
A taller, poly amorous version of Leonard from the BBT? Yeah...
that's right up my alley. Also... someone who would put the laundry
away. It's the only chore I actively dislike doing. Everything
else? I'm cool with.
I am a little hesitant to meet someone I've met on the internet.
It's not that I won't so much as I am very cautious and would
prefer to get to know you a bit first.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working and enjoying life. I just bought my own house and I am
trying to enjoy life and figure out what the next step is.
I'm also working on this thing called knowing myself and
communication. If I reject you it's because either 1 I'm not
attracted and that's okay (because I'm not required to like you
back?), 2 you don't meet what I need in a primary based on pure
biology, 3 I have found some value that we severely do not mesh on
(see 1), or 4 you're probably just too far away and I'm not willing
to pursue long distance from the start.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting other nerds onto nerdy topics in front of people who are
not nerds... completely by accident.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes or my lips
Or how I look like that girl from (insert random location or film
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book - Don Quixote (yes I know I'm crazy)
Movie - The Haunting of Molly Hartley
Shows - 2.5 Men, The Big Bang Theory, Firefly, Star Trek, Star
Gate, BSG.... you get the point. Also... BSG!!!
Music - Anything I can dance to usually
Food - ribs, sushi, lamb, smoked fish and creme brulee
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My fantastic friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I want to do in the next few years.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with friends or home doing some random activity
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a giant nerd. I'm a Trekkie who loves Doctor Who and gets
through the work day to finish shows like Battle Star Galactica. I
do have a thing about not liking to play video games in front of
people but I still love going to LAN parties even if it's just to
cheer on my friends. Plus I'm likely to bring snacks and I'm always
willing to go huddle up with a good game of Pokemon or Harvest Moon
in the corner.
You should message me if
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