~ Pema Chodron
"When two people meet and fall in love, there's a sudden rush of magic. Magic is just naturally present then. We tend to feed on that gratuitous magic without striving to make any more. One day we wake up and find that the magic is gone. We hustle to get it back, but by then it's usually too late, we've used it up. What we have to do is work like hell at making additional magic right from the start. It's hard work, but if we can remember to do it, we greatly improve our chances of making love stay."
~ Tom Robbins (Still Life with Woodpecker)
By Carl Jungs personality test standards I show up as INFJ.
some great articles.....
first-some ideas about choosing a woman like myself:
Next-because I dont believe in tepid anything:
And third- regardless of whether we are meant for each other-some crucial points about choosing a path together:
New Orleans, Athens Ga, Breckenridge/ Durango Co, Austin Tx, Maui, SF, Kauai, India, Bali, SF/Oakland. (And a few other places in the mix...)
the pronunciation of my online name is akasha sky. (not ski...)
I'm about to cross into my 5th year since returning to the bay and august was my 7 year reunion-i began adventuring to sf in 1990 -its been home in the greatest sense i can imagine tho i do get the wandering fever- that being said...here i still am, and i feel my roots crunching thru the grit of the earth and bringing me to greater stability. I like the sense of having a real home, and then getting to leave it when so desired and needed to flourish out in the world exploring and witnessing beyond the bubbles I am accustomed to.
i can say i value love and connection above most all else-feeling it, sharing and offering it....sharing intimacy in many forms-touching with art, music, and anything that brings us closer to a sense of wonder and enjoyment of being alive...i am highly discerning at this point with my attention- i am sensitive as well as curious and at moments slightly sassy (i value moxy and mojo....)-im naturally hghly sensual and i am not afraid of swimming in deep waters. I am very observant, have a way of remembering important conversations ver batem and i certainly have my share of wit and humor. (i think these are great suvival skills to have in life...) I know how to have fun. Intelligence + emotional maturity/availability and sense of humor is for me SUPER HOT.
I am highly creative-an original crafty vixen with good style. I have taught myself how to make patterns and sew. When I get inspired I can get into a project and go at it tirelessly.....fueled from within. I love dressing up and being taken out. A classic taurean woman i suppose who loves earthly pleasures, with I would say a very healthy sensual/sexual appetite-with my man. I am when in my element very affectionate. To know me is to feel the light of my love. This being said, I have a great love of exploring what is not seen and evoking Spirit in its most rarified manners. I am an adventurer. My hands are given my career choice some of my greatest tools. I love waking up in a tent taking in the sounds of nature, im not afraid to get dirty and dancing is my express train to everything holy....I use meditation as a means of slowing down and getting quiet enough with myself to let the truth of things rise to the surface. I am active in my life-and interested in sharing such activities. I excel at yoga while I lack the focus to do it consistently-I have more luck getting myself to hit the trails and run.
I have learned that i build trust over time-i am more of a show me what you got and then ill offer entrance to the temple than the other way around. I love my friends and family fiercely and I dont tend to put up with much bs. (And the loving light I offer is soft and gentle and if you receive it.....you have been granted entrance to the inner sanctum...and once there I give everything i have-from the autonomous, clear wholeness of just being me.....goofiness and smiles galore.)