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44 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 17
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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“Believe in a love that is being stored up for you like an inheritance, and have faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that you can travel as far as you wish without having to step outside it.”
― Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

Erased everything else. Time for a do over. Prepping for the horse year beginning next saturday.

I read my friend Jamie's explanation about herself and realized it is time for some different words here-to relate to the changes and explorations happening in my world.

So I am taking my time around shifting what was here. bear with me.

By Carl Jungs personality test standards I show up as INFJ.... which is quite well expressed and interesting to contemplate.

Also, an article which makes great sense to me about me, and advisable to read:
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
most things that i enjoy-i am good at. cooking, massaging, sports, games (love playing games), focused attention oriented activities, mind reading (lol), making art and fun and dancing.....cuddling, kissing (it is an art form), perceiving what is beneath the surface, having engaging conversations about life and the world around us, exploring, contemplating.....
The first things people usually notice about me
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my eyes....they usually comment on them as well as my height and stature-people find me graceful and elegant, and my voice is nice enough for a radio station.........
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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all time book fav's: Rumi, Herman Hesse, Isabelle Allende, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Pablo Neruda, certain Romantic poets (Blake, Shelley, Coleridge etc), I Ching, Pema Chodrin, Milan Kundera, Haruki Murakami (esp The Wind Up Bird Chronicles and Kafka On the Shore), John Lilly, Phillop K Dick (certain books), Rohinton Mistry, The Little Prince..Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Rainer Maria Rilke. Shantaram is most likely the best epic adventure ive taken in the last few years-the list goes on-being an English major in college I have read too many books to count...and for a while i thought I wanted to be the next Campbell or Estes....getting the second language down (I wasnt interested in French being the one for me) seems to be what shifted my attention.
Movies: Blade Runner, Wings of Desire, Donny Darko, Everything by Pedro Almodavar, most all of David Lynch, Stand By Me, Renegade, Matrix trilogy, Baraka, Natural Born Killers, Inception, Spirited Away, Howls Moving Castle, Manchurian Candidate (original), Rear Window,To Kill A Mockingbird, Amelie, Seven Pounds, ...amongst I know many many others.
MUSIC-love all kinds...excluding modern country. cant wrap my brain around it.......newest additions: ray la montagne and bon iver. -Black Keys rocked my world in May and I finally saw Radiohead this year. Milosh, junior boys, thom yorke, Santigold (hottest concert of 2012!), MIA, certain little bits of dubstep, plenty of downtempo, garage, future bass and various other electronic styles, cat power, led zeppelin, old black sabbath, old tool, (all depends on the mood!!) and classic rock, old funk (funkadelic. parliament, james brown...) nick drake, telepopmusik, massive attack, tricky, machine drum, megasoid, eskmo, fever ray, the knife, magic spells, new pony club, deru, dk krush, beats antique, modeselektor, apparat, moderat, Cesaria Evora, Manu Chao, old Soundgarden, Smashing Pumpkins, Nirvana, Pearl Jam and other early 90's stuff. This year 2013 has been a big year for concerts...Sigur Ros, David Byrne, Soundgarden, Chrystal Castles, Outside Lands amongst others. The Yeahyeahyeah's are top of the list and Im looking forward to the Pet Shop boys soon....
Food:I buy and eat ORGANIC Food.....SUSHI, Thai,Southwestern, Macrobiotic, Salads (i make the best ever), Cajun New Orleans style like I grew up with, BBQ (not pork tho), some Indonesian, Mediterranean, Exotic fruits and Super Foods(DURIAN!!!)....I LOVE TO EAT!!.....and I LOVE being HEALTHY!!....I make macrobiotic regularly....can eat kale and yams all the time, dark chocolate is a good friend and maple syrup.....ahhhh..of course this list can go on and on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love and Enjoyment of Being Alive
Dancing (so lets include music there)
Beautiful Friends and Loved Ones/Family
Nature close enough to touch and experience every day
Meaningful Work
Chemistry, Attraction and Passion
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
dancing, hanging with good friends, chillaxing at home, group meditations on certain nights....I love dinner parties.....and any group experience where I can interact in depth-star gazing from tall buildings, movie watching under the covers, art walks, enjoying life!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a thing for trap music.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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in process. for now lets say if you glad to be alive, enjoying what you got (and have) open/curious to exploring life, and ready to laugh alot!~