I'm polyamorous. If that's a deal breaker, you should move on now. I live with my primary, klrmn, who I am madly in love with. We date as individuals and as a couple. I also have two daughters, 16 and 27.

I'm looking for long term connections, friends, lovers, partners... I have very high standards. I am an intimacy junky. I wanna know my partners deeply. I want to hear your stories, who you were then, who you are now, how you got that way. I also want room to share that way with you. TMI all the time. I drink deeply of life in every way I can.

I'm a man with both strong alpha traits (dominant without being domineering, adventure seeking, high sex drive, etc.) and strong beta traits (I love cooking, creating art, talking, listening, reading, etc.) I am very much a relationship geek. Constantly exploring how it all works and how to make it better. If you're looking for a manly man, who watches sports, plays football, drives a truck and so on, keep looking.

I treat touch as an art form. Tantrafusion is a mix of massage, sexual energetics, focused attention, chiropractic, Tantra, Reiki, and losing the self in the art of it all.

Some keywords of their interests engine (things I do or am interested in): photography history psychology free fall romance polyamory teaching software software architecture geeks hiking camping redwoods gender movies thinking

I love working on "impossible" problems. I currently work for a startup building prototypes of devices to scan ears to produce custom fit earpieces.

I delight in creating delight. Cooking is a performance art. I like cooking for an audience. I can cook just about anything, however I am not a chef. I am... a tinkerer. I cook with my nose. Most of my creations are delightful... But every once in a while... (never make strawberry jam with maple syrup as the source of sugar).

I also love the whole touch as an art form thing. While I really love sex, I love the art of touch just a tiny bit more. Playing my hands over someone in time to music, massaging sometimes, rocking joints gently in time to the music until they release, slow compression and release on stiff muscles until they let go, dragging my nails across someone... It's intoxicating. 420 even better!

I love walking in redwoods. Riding motorcycles. Flying in wind tunnels. Chick flicks. Action movies. Photographing the people I delight in looking at.

Things I wanna do: travel the world, living a few years here, a few there; See more of the preserved history sites of this country and others; figure out how to share the things I've learned (perhaps as comedy); create shared living somewhere; fly in an open cockpit airplane/ultralight/autogyro; scuba diving; live in a triad again (or a quad or whatever); find a way so that my work is talking with people instead of computers.

Self exploration, pushing limits just a little, laughing.

At the moment, probably my hair.

Things that make me think, things that thinking about will improve my life. Movies, books, whatever. A favorite book is Richard Bach's Illusions. A favorite movie in a similar vein would be What Dreams May Come.

Food: I am a carnivore. And I love pizza. I also love it when cooking is an expression of either love or art (or both!)

A favorite quote: Always, always remember. Less is LESS. More is MORE. More is BETTER. And twice as much is good too! Not enough is BAD, and too much is NEVER enough, except when it's just about right.

1) Emotional Intimacy
2) Humor
3) Intensity
4) Touch
5) Sex
6) A screwdriver

Fun, Solving impossible problems, and Lunch.

In heaven on earth.

Ask me anything... I don't do secrets.

I am very careful about STDs. But if you're the kind of person who "only dates people who are clean", don't bother with me. Not because I'm not clean, but because I find that attitude really wanting. Love people because of who they are, and then decide what you do with them based on risk. What can I say, I'm fundamentally anti-fundamentalist.

You can write in complete sentences. You can also just send me a word (yes, I know that's not a complete sentence), I will read your profile, and write you back a poem.