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akingsto

32 / F / straight / Single

Beaverton, Oregon

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am smart, quirky, and optimistic.

My Self-Summary

I'm silly... and grateful... and fairly generous... and sometimes bossy... and deeply moved, often by things that others overlook... and optimistic... and occasionally witty... and I like ellipses! Can you tell?

What I’m doing with my life

I take each day one moment at a time. I love life... the ups and the downs, the moments by myself and the times when I'm surrounded by community.

I'm an early childhood teacher - I spend my days with nine brilliant babies, watching their minds unfold, getting covered with finger paint, and crawling around on the floor being silly.

I love to get crafty... mostly paper and collage art.

I love music, so I try to catch great up-and-coming artists at local venues whenever possible.

During the dry season, I love to be outdoors... hiking, camping, and kayaking when I can get my hands on a boat. My dog Abby is a great little tag-along on these outdoor adventures.

I've volunteered quite a bit in my life, for organizations like a bird rescue and sanctuary, a "living museum," an after-school reading program, and a yoga and meditation center. Right now I'm in search of my next chance to make a difference...

I’m really good at

Finding joy in the little things... crossword puzzles... thinking big thoughts... seeing other people's perspectives... jigsaw puzzles... coordinating potlucks and other fun get-togethers... appreciating other cultures... Total Annihilation (I will cream you at this game!)... moving on from life's minor upsets... Scrabble...

The first things people usually notice about me

I have a great smile and my eyes sparkle... no really, they do!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music = K's Choice... Everything but the Girl... Tyrone Wells... Radiohead... Girl Talk... Damien Marley... Kate Klim... Explosions in the Sky... Belle and Sebastian... J-Live... Coldplay... Chaka Khan (old school, baby)

Movies = V for Vendetta... Chronicles of Riddick... Love, Actually... anything with Mark Ruffalo or John Cusack or Gwyneth Paltrow or Natalie Portman or Vin Diesel

Books = Ishmael by Daniel Quinn... The Fionavar Trilogy by Guy Gavriel Kay... anything with vampires... Philip Pullman's His Dark Materials Trilogy... anything written by Neil Gaiman or Orson Scott Card or Annie LaMott or Tom Robbins or Ian McEwan or Cheri Huber or Michael Pollan

Food = Vegetarian, especially Italian, Indian, Greek, and tapas

The six things I could never do without

1. Friends and family
2. My dog, Abby
3. Books, books, books
4. Mountains and streams
5. Children in my life
6. Spirituality, in all its many forms

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life... the future... the things I'm grateful for... the "bigger picture"

On a typical Friday night I am

Oh, who knows... I try not to let my life get this predictable.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I once chose to go over six weeks without talking to anyone. It was an amazing experience - you learn a lot about yourself when you have nobody else to talk to!

You should message me if

- You know where the quote "I do doodle. You too. You do doodle too." is from... and don't just Google it, ya big slacker! You either know it or you don't... and if you do, big brownie points.

- You're a straight guy who's looking for something other than a one-night stand or poly relationship... They're fine for some people, but I'm not into those things these days.

- You like a girl who thinks for herself and finds better things to do with her time than polish her toenails or debate the merits of various brands of eyeliner.

- Oh, what the heck... if you've made it this far, you should probably message me, eh? :)