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35 Mission Viejo, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:55am
Asian, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), Hawaiian (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am not the hugest fan of writing about or trying to sell myself, but I will do my best! I’m a super mellow dude, practically nothing fazes me and I am very good at adapting to most situations or just playing things by ear. I grew up in Southern California, went to college up north and then lived in Texas for a while before moving back to California (long story, I’ll save it for later). I’m a huge fan of going out to see live music, I don’t mind driving up to LA or down to SD on school nights, even though this is starting to get rougher the older I get. Mostly this just means that waking up for work sucks that much more, but at least I'm banking a lot of great experiences. One of the best developments in recent years has been the Observatory in Santa Ana booking a whole bunch of great acts, so I don’t have to make super adventurous treks too much lately. I love divey-ish bars that play good music, but those are hard to come by in far south County, so I find myself out in Santa Ana and Costa Mesa when I’m in the mood for a decent bar.
What I’m doing with my life
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Finally working a relatively grown-up job, the 8-5 deal, basically social work, but the boring eligibility side, not the more involved case work side.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making other people laugh for no reason apparently.
correctly guessing the numerical rating for a Pitchfork review.
Ability to discern foreign accents.
Having Middle Child Syndrome.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My glasses? They are light brown and I've had them since before they were hip, but at least I'm stylish now? Also, since I'm a mutt, I always get questioned about my ethnicity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a) my all time favorite book is The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy. Haruki Murakami, Neal Stephenson, William Gibson, Chuck Klosterman, Cormac McCarthy, Sarah Vowell, Kurt Vonnegut, Christopher Hitchens, blah, blah, I like to read. Work lately has been sapping my energy to read, but I’ve set a goal of trying to finish Infinite Jest for once, even if it’s the only book I read all year.

b) Big Trouble in Little China, American Splendor, Chungking Express, Casablanca, Aguirre, The Wrath of God, Annie Hall, Metropolitan, Barcelona, Last Year at Marienbad, All the Real Girls, The Vengeance Trilogy, Reprise

c) The Wire (the best thing ever), Breaking Bad, Spaced, Arrested Development, Top Chef (ask me about that time my family was on Top Chef Masters, true story!), The Thick of It, BBC dramas, Louie

d) Post-Punk (Joy Division), Post-Rock (Explosions in the Sky), classic 90s hip-hop (Pete Rock & CL Smooth), Twee (The Lucksmiths, Beulah), Jazz (Coltrane), Trip-hop (Portishead), Indie Rock (The National), Alt. Country (Wilco, Neko Case.) Y'know what? I'll listen to most anything except fucking Zydeco. I HATE ZYDECO.

e) I enjoy food, am not a picky eater and I'll pretty much try anything at least once. Currently, I would say my favorite type of food is Ethiopian, it just has such a different flavor profile than most other foods that it is always quite enjoyable.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good book to read, my glasses, earplugs (for seeing bands live - I'm a wuss and don't want to go deaf), good music, Rainbow slippers, and iced beverages (this from traveling in Europe and having luke warm drinks, no fun).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
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On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either being lazy at home and watching a movie or out seeing some band somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Now that I'm no longer in school, I don't really like the Summer. I'm not a huge fan of warm weather, I prefer Autumn/Winter and lower temperatures.
You should message me if
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You want to discuss Karl Marx and social constructionism, or hang out and watch Herzog documentaries.

I'm always looking for a pal to check out new music and restaurants.