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35 Mission Viejo, CA Man


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  • Ages 28–36
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Last Online
Yesterday – 9:14pm
Asian, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), Hawaiian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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When I was young, like 4 or 5, as we were driving by a pasture full of horses, I made the statement "when I grow up, I want to be a horse and eat hay!" My parents laughed and without fail will bring this story up at the most inopportune moments. I unfortunately never did grow up to be a horse or actually ever have anything to do with horses, but I still have a predilection towards making bold statements without considering the consequences.

Lately I find I have this tendency to always consider worst case scenarios for any situation and then really go off the rails and consider exponentially worse case scenarios, like having a heart attack, getting hit in the head with a space toilet, the sun exploding, the galaxy collapsing into a black hole. See what I mean? Shit can always get worse.

Within the past year I've started running long distance again and have found that I actually enjoy it. I ran cross country during high school (mostly to pad out my extracurriculars for college) and hated every minute of it. My new found enjoyment probably has something to do with this being something I'm doing because I want to, not because I have to.

Books are a pretty integral part of my identity, my parents would always read books to myself and my siblings before we went to sleep when we were younger and I think this helped to instill us with a belief in the importance of reading. As such, I read all the time and I usually have like 6 books going at any given time. Having a Kindle/iphone has been the best thing ever because I always have a book on hand.

I have this ongoing discussion with my brother about the nature of music fans, especially with regards to seeing live music. Some people maybe only see their favorite band once or twice and that is a big deal, while others see a lot of different bands all the time (of course this also depends on your location - if you live in like Billings, Montana your live music options are going to be limited). I fall squarely into the seeing a lot of different bands camp. I love seeing live music and try to see as many shows as often as I can. Getting older just means that waking up for work sucks that much more, but at least I'm banking a lot of great experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finally working a relatively grown-up job, the 8-5 deal, basically social work, but the boring eligibility side, not the more involved case work side.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making other people laugh for no reason apparently.
correctly guessing the numerical rating for a Pitchfork review.
Ability to discern foreign accents.
Having Middle Child Syndrome.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My glasses? They are light brown and I've had them since before they were hip, but at least I'm stylish now? Also, since I'm a mutt, I always get questioned about my ethnicity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a) my all time favorite book is The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Haruki Murakami, Neal Stephenson, William Gibson, Chuck Klosterman, Cormac McCarthy, Sarah Vowell, Kurt Vonnegut, Christopher Hitchens, blah, blah, I like to read. Currently reading Motherless Brooklyn.

b) Big Trouble in Little China, American Splendor, Chungking Express, Casablanca, Aguirre, The Wrath of God, Annie Hall, Metropolitan, Barcelona, Last Year at Marienbad, All the Real Girls, The Vengeance Trilogy, Reprise

c) The Wire (the best thing ever), Breaking Bad, Spaced, Arrested Development, Top Chef (ask me about that time my family was on Top Chef Masters, true story!), The Thick of It, BBC dramas, Louie

d) Post-Punk (Joy Division), Post-Rock (Explosions in the Sky), classic 90s hip-hop (Pete Rock & CL Smooth), Twee (The Lucksmiths, Beulah), Jazz (Coltrane), Trip-hop (Portishead), Indie Rock (The National), Alt. Country (Wilco, Neko Case),

Y'know what? I'll listen to most anything except fucking Zydeco. I HATE ZYDECO.

Currently been listening to Aussie Twee - Allo' Darlin', Lucksmiths, and streaming that new Sleater-Kinney. Here is my if you happen to be more curious:

e) I enjoy food, am not a picky eater and I'll pretty much try anything at least once. Currently, I would say my favorite type of food is Ethiopian, it just has such a different flavor profile than most other foods that it is always quite enjoyable.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good book to read, my glasses, earplugs (for seeing bands live - I'm a wuss and don't want to go deaf), good music, Rainbow slippers, and iced beverages (this from traveling in Europe and having luke warm drinks, no fun).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo. This is a for real sentence! It uses the verb form of buffalo meaning "to bully or intimidate."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either being lazy at home and watching a movie or out seeing some band somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Now that I'm no longer in school, I don't really like the Summer. I'm not a huge fan of warm weather, I prefer Autumn/Winter and lower temperatures.
You should message me if
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You want to discuss Karl Marx and social constructionism, or hang out and watch Herzog documentaries.

I'm always looking for a pal to check out new music and restaurants.