I'm available but not single and not seeking sex partners . When it comes to friends-with-benefits friendship doesn't guarantee you get benefits and you definitely don't get benefits without the friendship being there. This means propositioning me first usually doesn't work; I will let people know if I'm interested.
My primary/life partner is in one of my photos but not on OKC and many of my past and present play partners have OKC profiles.
For someone that spent the first two thirds of my life in Mississippi I don't have an accent and loathe the xenophobia the rest of my family takes pride in. I have a passion for traveling and trying to understand other cultures. My primary passion though is masquerade balls; I might not know how to dance but put me in a mask (and costume...usually) and I will have the most amazing night of my life dragging everyone around me along for the ride.
If you're sending me an message I don't respond to people who only open by talking about my appearance, if the whole body of the text is "How are you doing?/Hello." or has nothing to base the conversation on. I might be missing out on awesome conversations but odds are I'm not because they didn't read my profile.
Hobbies/Interests: Crafts (I can't sew but I'm reasonably good at jewelry and masks), movies, reading, drawing, table top rpgs, board games
I am affectionate, social, and more than a little odd
- Making boob jokes at my own expense.
- Catching people I find fascinating off guard.
- Living a reality my online friends think is a lie.
I'm a fan of Jim Butcher's "Dresden Files", Kim Harrison, Pattricia Briggs, George R. R. Martin, and a slew of others. Oh and my friend Seanan McGuire (aka Mira Grant) is an AMAZING urban fantasy. Go. Read and help support a fellow geek (also, buy her music; that woman can sing). I'm a fan of Clive Barker, Neil Gaiman, Neil Stephenson, and Sergei Lukyaneko too. I'll read almost anything and if I like a book it's usually only going to last less than 3 days and that's if I'm busy. I keep a copy of The Complete Collections of H.P. Lovecraft next to my bed and re-read them often (sure he was a xenophobic shut in but he created interesting horror)
I've also read the Principia Discordia 3 times... and think I understood some of it. Scared yet?
Bloodties, Dresden Files, Lost Girl, Carnivale, and most other tv series that are fun and well written but I don't see often since I don't watch TV much.
All time favorites are Labyrinth, Bram Stoker's Dracula, and Legend. However, I'm a fan of most Sci-fi, Horror, and Fantasy. I'm not into "girly" movies and most romantic comedies can't hold my attention long. I have a big soft spot for Horror Musicals...I've yet to meet one I didn't love.
Abney Park, Sonata Arctica, Inkubus Sukkubus, VAST, Garbage, Savatage, Dropkick Murphies, Flogging Molly, VNV Nation, Babyland, Tom Smith, Cruxshadows, Concrete Blonde, Enigma, Delerium, Stromkern, Sisters of Mercy, Heather Alexander,.... tons more being discovered constantly
Yes. Do you want specific dishes or ethnicity here? It's easier to list what I don't like. Take me to dinner I'll find something on the menu I like... or barring that I'll discover something new. I LOVE Asian foods not just sushi and sashimi or Chinese dishes but everything within my heat tolerance spice wise. Tom-Kah-Gai is heaven and Lamb Curry dishes are delicious.
2 - books
3 - Survival necessities (food, water, shelter, ect)
4 - sunblock
5 - a link to the outside world
6 - variety
Various perspectives people hold of love.
Why my sister got all the tanning genes and I get mild sunburns on full moons.
Men with long hair (one thing most of my exes, former lovers, and current paramours share)
Lawn gnomes freak me out. We'll just leave it at "childhood trauma"
I am absolutely terrified of dancing in public but still want to take dance lessons particularly ballroom and bellydancing.
Masks are sexy.
If a man has long hair, that's well kept, he instantly has a higher chance at seducing me... though, if he can't wow me intellectually or with common hobbies I lose interest immediately. And if he hits on me without wowing me intellectually he gets added to the "People I want to set on fire" list just like everyone else.
By messaging me and not following correct conversation format described here you consent to a full critique of your conversational deficiencies.
I'm interested in:
- any excuse to wear a elaborate costume in public (I do not own any fur suits though.)
- Geeks wanting to get together for gaming
- If your idea of a fun outing is a used bookstore, board games and interesting food...I'm also a fan for lasertag, trampolines, night time park visits, zoos and museums.
- People who can introduce themselves properly and hold a conversation with a stranger that doesn't cross into the sexual right off the bat.
- If you know the difference between a compliment and a catcall.