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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:21pm
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Buddhism and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm quite a catch: I can pronounce prosciutto correctly and everything.
What I’m doing with my life
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Chasing various quixotic ends.

Devoting all the time I can spare to puttering around on guitar. Spending a lot of brainpower thinking about music and music projects. Trying to tackle dense philosophy texts, historical context be damned.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
affable Continental world-weariness.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I haven't the faintest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Huxley, Salinger, Hemingway, Murakami. These are my very favorites.

Movies: I am grievously behind on movies from the last few years. My bad.

TV: Doctor Who, House of Cards, Rick & Morty, The IT Crowd, QI

Music: Baroness, Beach House, Belle & Sebastian, Built to Spill, Fantasy Rainbow, Fleet Foxes, Girls, Grizzly Bear, The Mountain Goats, The New Pornographers, The Smiths, Smith Westerns, Surfer Blood, The Walkmen, Wilco, Woods, WU LYF, generally anything that can get me moving or make me feel stuff.

Food: Meat. Seafood. Cheese. Green stuff. Anything I've never tasted before.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The small guitar fleet, something totally new to see, my vast array of coffee & tea preparation devices and utensils, a pair of decent headphones, nice hardwood floors, pullup bar/parallel bars for exercise.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
if that guy in the grocery store knows he looks exactly like a young Peter O'Toole.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pursuing novelty.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My caffeine tolerance verges on alarming.
You should message me if
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you'd like to shoot the breeze with an eye toward meeting sometime for drinks. Christ, this is a dating website, let's not overthink this.

Alternatively, if you're into jamming, hit me up.