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alacrityfitz

59 / M / straight / Single

Stockton, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Gemini
Education
college/university
Job
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am quick-witted, thoughtful, and chivalrous.

My Self-Summary

Yikes! (Well, I guess I'm the kinda guy that says, "Yikes!")
I tend toward parenthetical thoughts... (whatever THAT means!)
And I tend towards procrastination when it comes to writing things like this...

I would be a writer...except for all the paperwork! (I know that's not original, but it's such a great line!) add "plagiarist" to the list! : )

Been back in California since just before Christmas. Painted the orange living room walls and pink and lavender bed and bathrooms (nearly done with the painting, the drapes and vertical blinds!) Saving up my money to retire on that sandy beach one day. In the meantime, frequent flyer miles help me keep my sanity!

What I’m doing with my life

They just finished re-plastering my swimming pool this week. Planning a little pool party for the fourth of July weekend. Should be a good place to beat the heat!

I’m really good at

Writing, singing and Trivial Pursuit... Technical stuff: Fixing broke stuff, breaking fixed stuff.

Cooking - I make a pretty decent sweet and sour stir fry, a meatloaf at least as good as my Mom's and soups by the crockpot. My pumpkin pie has been judged better than Mrs. Smith's and my strawberry-rhubarb is even better! My big problem is I don't really like cooking for one. Cooking and the meal after should be more of a social event, something to be shared.

I feel the same way about travel. It's better when shared!

The first things people usually notice about me

My height, my blue eyes, my sense of humor.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A. Disturbing the Universe by Freeman Dyson; (authors) Michael Connelly, Robert B. Parker, John Grisham
B. Silverado, Shakespeare in Love, 50 First Dates, Playing by Heart
C. Craig Chaquico, Jim Brickman, Jimmy Buffett
D. Steak, lobster and key lime pie, or meat loaf, baked potato and pumpkin pie

The six things I could never do without

My Guild 12 string guitar, my morning coffee, sunsets on the water, a good book, stimulating conversation, a sense of wonder ... not necessarily in that order...
...how about...life, liberty, and the purfuit of happineff? (Old Stan Freburg joke)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Why am I only 97% compatible with myself? Is it that whole "male/female" thing where I'm looking to find a woman and am not one? Other than that, I'm perfect for me??? Nah! I don't think so!

On a typical Friday night I am

Defragging my hard drive. (Gosh! That sounds dirty, somehow!) Unwinding from the work week. Working on a blog (or two) that allows me to exercise a little bit of creativity.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

When all those people are taking moonlit walks on the beach and going skinny dipping, I follow along behind them and make off with their watches and wallets!

You should message me if

You have a sense of humor, can fog a mirror and have a picture posted. You are a non-smoker (or wanting to quit) and you have a picture posted (preferably your own!) so that I can see your eyes (and maybe yor laugh lines!). English as a first (or second) language would be nice!