37 Diamond Bar, CA
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
I'm a hopeful romantic realist. I believe dates are sacred and should be properly observed. I don't agree with gender roles, but I do believe a good date should know what chivalry means. Opening doors, being thoughtful, and being kind to others goes a long way to impress me. I see being assertive but not arrogant as extremely sexy.

I am nerdy and geeky in equal parts. I'm often friendly, generous, and boisterous. I'm comfortably-extroverted and self-consciously introverted. I like to sing in the car loudly and horribly to doowop, eighties, nineties, and pop hits.

I want to be your little spoon in this giant kitchen drawer we call "life."

If you're good with kids, dogs, and other helpless and/or woodland creatures, I'm a sucker for that shit.

If you're a Jedi in the streets and a Sith in the sheets.

If you're interested, that's awesome. If you're not, that's OK too, but honestly, not as awesome!
What I’m doing with my life
I work for one of the biggest libraries on the West Coast, so some of my nerdy and geeky dreams are coming to life.
I’m really good at
Video games, except the fighting ones, I'm kind of rusty at those.

Languages, I soak them in like a sponge, a little rusty in some, but can still hack it; I know Tagalog, French, Spanish, and a little Italian.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've got gadgets and gizmos aplenty. I've got whozits and whatzits galore. You want thingamabobs? I've got twenty.

And my legs and calves are killer... Also, I hear I dance a mean Cumbia, but I'm shy about that one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Fantasy (Weiss - Hickman, Eddings, Jordan, Lackey, Greenwood, Riordan). Also love me some Sedaris, Austen, Shakespeare.

MOVIES: I love RomComs and Comedies.

SHOWS: Anime (Crunchyroll!), K-Dramas, Parks & Rec, 30 Rock, Modern Family, Grey's Anatomy, The Good Wife, The Middle, The Daily Show.

MUSIC: My musical tastes depends on my moods, but I'm open to listening to almost anything.

FOOD: I have a propensity for Asian food, Filipino, Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Vietnamese, etc., but I'm open to anything. I love my Mexican flautas, burritos, tostadas, etc. And I'm selective with my Italian food.
The six things I could never do without
Friends and family (given)

In no particular order:
Journal and G7 pens.
Bessie (my cahr).
A fan.
Long pillow.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How loud can I sing in my car without blocking out police / ambulance sirens?

Why does it rain the day after I get my car washed?

Is my right arm longer that my left arm?

Why do all my good thoughts come when I'm in the shower?

Why do my wittiest comebacks always come AFTER I've been thoroughly trounced?

If I sing in the shower, is it technically still horrible if no one can hear it?

What if your safe word is "Don't stop" What would happen?
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching movies.

Catching up on Netflix / HBO / Showtime / Crunchyroll.

Cuddling... with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes, I get lost even while I'm using my GPS.

Sometimes I come off as pretentious, but I'm not doing it on purpose :(
You should message me if
I bet you got the techniques
to freak a guy inside out
What's that all about?
Can I have some of that?
You gotta put me on
Word around town is that you're nine men strong
I wanna be put on in the worst way
Since the first day
I think it was a Thursday
You be that person that I wanna sink my teeth in
Make me wanna ask,
"Where the hell ya been?"
I like the way you be with all that personality
But I got flava too
You needs to get with me!