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42 F San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:48pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Life is pretty great, but I have to admit I sometimes long for the days when nothing made me happier than climbing trees or bonfires on the beach.

I grew up here in SF, traveled a lot and lived other places, then moved back when my brothers started having kids. Madrid is my second home - I miss those warm nights when you can go out in a skirt and short sleeves. And the jamon. I'm very social and playful, but at the same time connect deeply with people. My friends cover my whole life and much of the globe.

I have pretty varied interests and am comfortable in most any setting. I love all things related to the water- rafting, tropical beaches, sun and sea. Dancing keeps me happy and sane, salsa rueda these days, but pretty much anything where the music moves you. I like to stay active and try new things - or old things with good company :) My dad raised me a sports fan - from the Giants to the World Cup - so needless to say, it's been a fun couple of years.
What I’m doing with my life
Spending time with the people I love. Work is important to me, it's not just a job. I work at the intersection of education and social services, building collaborations to support vulnerable kids and families in schools.
I’m really good at
Thinking fast and talking faster, being the one people come to with their serious problems and/or wacky spur-of-the-moment plans, making people around me happy (well making them laugh at least), taking ideas apart and putting them back together.
The first things people usually notice about me
cute smile, curly hair, and a charm that does not translate into the virtual world ;o)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite lists are so hard for me, but here is a sample of some of the classics:

A Suitable Boy, Sherlock Holmes, Always Outnumbered Always Outgunned, Lord of the Rings, the Princess Bride (as a teenager :), To Kill A Mockingbird.

West Wing (now it's The Newsroom), Buffy and Firefly, and the Daily Show - that actually gives you quite a peek into my personality.

Favorite food is impossible - depends on what I am craving. Sushi, dim sum, brussel sprouts, a perfect medium rare steak. All things Spanish. A nice glass of zinfandel or port. I'll eat most anything, but I am a bit of a spice wimp, unfortunate because most of my favorite foods are spicy!

My music taste is eclectic - R&B, Beatles, hip hop, native tongue, rock, samba reggae, boleros, musicals- classic and new. I am a child of the 80s, no doubt. I love being exposed to new music and genres.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:

Family and friends
A really good mojito
Meaningful work
Ocean and sunshine
Love and romance (and kissing, lots of kissing)
Travel - new places and old favorites
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Squirrel! So very many things. Plane tickets and all the daydreaming that goes with them. How to improve our education and health systems. What to make my vegetarian niece and nephew on Tuesday nights. Learning to surf, but somewhere warm. Lately I've been thinking about joining a softball team.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at a friend's house making dinner and getting silly, or out and about. Could also be headed out of town for a weekend of camping, hiking, and wine tasting (you'd be amazed how often those three activities can go hand in hand). Full disclosure - sometimes I'm nestled on my couch, recovering from a long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmm... I'm looking for a serious relationship, and I'm also hoping to enjoy the journey.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're passionate about something in your life.

I don’t really have a list when it comes to dating and chemistry - I’m looking for someone who makes me laugh. And who is crazy affectionate. Humor and strength are an irresistible combination.