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44 F Portage, IN

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:29pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I am a very honest, goal driven person. I am adventurous and spontaneous. I would like the same in a mate. I can admit that I can be something of a smart ass- quick wit and somewhat sarcastic. Love to laugh. I may be a bit old fashioned but I like for the man to take the dating lead. I don't appreciate crassness; specifically in the form of sexual overtures when you've just met me. Cursing like a sailor two minutes into our first conversation is a turn off. Not to be misunderstood (I was recently referred to as "rigid" by someone from this site that never even had a conversation with me) I AM known to be crass, curse like a sailor- when warranted, and rather raunchy; however, not upon meeting someone for the first time.

I'm really into politics and history. Love to learn about different cultures and religions.

Love a healthy debate.

I would like to meet someone adventurous and fiscally responsible who understands that an occasional splurge is okay.

Most important is someone with a relationship with God- in whatever form you choose. Salvation is not ONLY found in a church pew. In fact, you sometimes find everything BUT lurking there.

* I am full-figured
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently working towards earning a second master's degree- an MBA. It is killing me. I am a former English teacher with a M.Ed. Business Administration is totally foreign to me so it can be a struggle.
I’m really good at
That's a tough one....
Making people feel comfortable
Seeing the best in people even when they can't see it
Diner Dash
Wanting to defend the underdog
Being supportive of others
** Picking the wrong guy- hoping to change that!**
Attracting EVERY homeless, unemployed, toothless, and marginally illiterate man in my vacinity. All the better if he wears a dirty wife beater, cut-off jeans, lives in his mom's basement, and is offering to wash my windshield. So Sexy!! :-(.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes- if I'm wearing contact lenses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Nothing too profound. After reading some profiles listing epic novels, I feel kind of crappy with my list:

Movie- Love Actually, About Last Night
Book- anything by John Sanford or Karin Slaughter
Shows- Scandal, House Hunters, Criminal Minds, Law & Order SVU
Music- just about anything except heavy metal (which I lovingly refer to as "Kill Your Mother, Eat Her Body" music), techno, or males singing country music. That last one is a bit sexist but I don't care. The ladies of country music are awesome.
Food- Mexican & Chinese
The six things I could never do without
Books, Music, Computers, Movies, Family, Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My 5-Year Plan
Living somewhere WARM
Where I want to live after finishing MBA program
Should I buy a house or wait
On a typical Friday night I am
At study group or celebrating the end of a busy week
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well, that's private now isn't it...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are spontaneous, goal-oriented, and honest.
Able to maintain an interesting conversation while making me laugh.

Things I've Learned From Previous On-Line Dating Experiences:
You don't have fetishes that involve body waste.
You are not into incestuous relationships- specifically, with your siblings.
If you're bi-sexual or bi-curious, just be honest about it.
You are at least marginally sane with a firm grip on reality.
You don't begin the first conversation by telling me that you were once a major drug dealer.
You bathe and brush @ least once a day.
You can handle sarcasm.
You do not expect me to have the time to email all day long. My schedule is busy and I would hope that after a few emails we can move to texting & talking.