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39 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:00pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
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Hello, and welcome! Please bear with me, this profile is a work in progress. As for me, you could say the same, but that is the joy of life!

In short: geeky, social justice minded, affectionate, sex-positive, sarcastic, poly and kinky, and much more. Ready for new experiences, connections, and adventures!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it!!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
While I would like to say my wit, based on what people ask me when meeting me, it's my "accent". I have a certain quality to my voice that people can't place. I grew up in North Carolina, so people usually think it's a trace of that...but in NC I had people thinking I sounded like everything from a Midwest accent to Australian. Who knows?

Or, that I am not a velociraptor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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What about games?? They are just as important a form of media/content/consumption as any of this stuff! I am a huge fan of all forms of hobby and adventure gaming, from RPGs to hex and counter wargames to video games to miniatures games, and more.

So here goes: Star Fleet Battles (more Truth than game) and the other Star Fleet Universe games. Dungeons and Dragons (4E, but grew up playing pretty much every version). World of Warcraft (in casual mode now). Warmachine and Hordes. Warhammer 40,000. Exalted. Anything either World of Darkness, but especially Wraith: the Oblivion, either Mage, and Vampire: the Requiem. Ogre/GEV. Malifaux. Munchkin of many flavors. Fantasy Flight boardgames in all their luscious insanity. Final Fantasy (not 8!). Earthdawn. Tiny Wings. X-Wing Alliance. Half-Life. And many more.

For more passive media, I continue the sci-fi/fantasy/horror trend. Favorite authors include H.P. Lovecraft, Charles Stross, Iain M. Banks, Robert Heinlein, Douglas Adams, Robert E. Howard, Robert Jordan, Thomas Ligotti, Neil Gaiman, and so forth.

My list of movies that I can always watch again: Ghostbusters, Big Trouble
In Little China, The Fifth Element, Dark City, The Matrix, Inception, Iron Man, the original Star Wars trilogy.

Favorite TV Series: Doctor Who (new and old), Torchwood, Star Trek (TOS, TNG, and DS9), Millenium, Firefly, Mythbusters, Invader Zim, Chopped, Ren and Stimpy, Sifl and Olly.

When it comes to food, I am very broad. I adore sushi. I am a confirmed omnivore. Thai, Japanese, Chinese, Italian, a good juicy burger. Pizza please! Gyros and feta and olives and yum! Bacon is meat candy. Speaking of candy and such, I have a sweet tooth that frequently needs reinned in. I am diabetic, which has caused a shift in my eating and relationship with food, but I still love it. Cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends of all strips
Fun games of all kinds
The Internets...
...and the iPhone that allows me to always be connected to it
All the stars that shine in the night sky
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Games. Sex. Friends. Stuff I make up. Bears.

Not in that order, and often in assorted combinations.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights are my date night with a most wonderful Daddy. We are usually doing some combination of dinner, gaming, and sex - not all at the same time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really like...oh shiny thing!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. have found a fellow geek. like new friends. are intrigued, and think you can intrigue me. are just so moved.