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  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
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Last online
Today – 2:31pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Two-year college
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've always had friends of the opposite sex, more female than male. If that's an issue, move on to the next page. Not only romantic relationships come from here, friends do too.

I enjoy bowling, tattoos, The Big Lebowski and if you choose/need to, I'm 420 friendly. I can respect the valid medicinal properties it possesses and have seen it's healing in person. Chivalry isn't dead with me. Open minded, good sense of humor, patient person.

I prefer texting over calling (most times), yet prefer a handwritten letter over an email ANYTIME. makes our worlds go round. For me especially soothing female vocals accompanied by the piano. My musical tastes vary greatly.

I enjoy going to shows and Dodger games. Definitely a big Dodger fan. And Clippers games too. Rarely even watch any other sports on TV (other than PBA Bowling and the NBA/MLB Playoffs). Nothing like heading to Dodger Stadium to see a game live.

I have a very nurturing personality. It comes naturally with my love of animals and occupation of working one-on-one with Autistic students. look out for those closest to me....and well all my friends.

I feel that those around me describe me as caring, generous, dependable and honest. But you can decide whatever you want to describe me as YOU get to know me. I've tried to lie in the past and it just doesn't feel right. But that's good. Honesty. I try to be a good friend. If you need me for anything, I will try to help out if I can.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
School is on hold (but not given up on) at the moment.

I'm currently working with children with special needs. It's a job I really enjoy, is very rewarding and something I hold close to my heart. Even if at times I am a human punching bag for the child I am working with. I still love my job.

Bowling in my spare time for fun and practice and also in a bowling league. It's good physical activity. If you don't think so or don't consider it a sport, try rolling 24+ games in one span and then get back to me on it. I love it. And it's such an amazing community to be a part of, like a second family. 🎳

Volunteer Coaching with the Youth League Bowlers.

I've recently over the past couple years or so got into the activity of shooting (for skill, not hunting) and am really enjoying it so far. Looking forward to the day I own my own firearm.

Eating Hummus and Pita Chips. Such an excellent combination!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trying to see things from both people's perspectives, not making assumptions (which has cut down on so much drama in my life), trying not to "overthink" things that people say and just being very patient in general.
I do work with kids after all, PATIENCE is necessary there.

Pissing you off? Hahahahaha. (See? There is that sarcastic, smart-ass sense of humor kicking in)

I always rocked at Goldeneye, Mario Kart 64 and both Legend of Zelda games for N64.


Making awesome chocolate chip cookies (not pre-made dough either).

Parallel parking.

Using my turn signals.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have no clue. The red hair, smile, eyes and beard are what others have told me. That and a great sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Fault In Our Stars- John Green
Scar Tissue- Anthony Kiedis
My Boring-Ass Life- Kevin Smith
Tuesdays With Morrie- Mitch Albom
The Five People You Meet In Heaven- Mitch Albom
The Blue Nowhere- Jeffrey Deaver
The Green Mile- Stephen King
Ender's Game- Orson Scott Card

Currently hooked on @midnight on Comedy Central, Gotham and The Walking Dead. Need to catch up on The Blacklist, The Following and Orphan Black (BBC).
Fringe, Dexter,Breaking Bad, Lie to Me, American Pickers, Californication, Deadliest Catch, The Big C, The Buried Life, Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles, CSI (the original), Scrubs, The X-Files, Ace of Cakes, Code Monkeys, Top Gear, Rob & Big, Rob Drydek's Fantasy Factory, Home Improvement, Firefly, Futurama, My Name is Earl, Smallville, Wonder Showzen (so deliciously offensive), PBA Bowling, Pawn Stars, Storage Wars, Rocko's Modern Life.

Anything Kevin Smith (yes.....even Jersey Girl), Clerks, The Big Lebowski, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, American History X, It Could Happen To You, In The Land Of Women, Stand By Me, The Green Mile, Constantine, Office Space, Transformers, A Walk to Remember, The Sandlot, The Boondock Saints, The Fifth Element, Pan's Labyrinth, The Lake House, Borat, Crash, Catch and Release, Grumpy Old Men, Grumpier Old Men, POTC series, LOTR series, Reservoir Dogs, The Salton Sea, 10 Things I Hate About You, Tommy Boy, Iron Man, Henry Poole is Here, The Shawshank Redemption, Good Will Hunting, Donnie Darko, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Pay It Forward, Reign Over Me, Zombieland, The Hangover.

A very wide variety, most types. Rock, Metal, Country, Alternative, Acoustic, Pop, some Indie, even some Vocal Trance.

Some of my favorite artists/groups include:

boxViolet, 30 Seconds to Mars,Christina Perri, Lady Gaga, Colbie Caillat, Sara Bareilles, Reggie and the Full Effect, Metallica, Kelly Clarkson, A Fine Frenzy, Adele, Brandi Carlile, Foo Fighters, Slayer, System of A Down, My Chemical Romance, The Offspring, Hatebreed, Terri Clark, Sara Evans, Bloodhound Gang, Sheryl Crow, Scars On Broadway, Judas Priest, Anthrax, The Cranberries, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Johnny Cash, Armin Van Buuren.

Standup Comedians:
Patton Oswalt
Zach Galifianakis
Brian Posehn
Doug Benson
Whitney Cummings
Greg Geraldo (RIP)
Rachel Feinstein
George Carlin (RIP)
Jim Gaffigan
Nick Swardson
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Food/Water (necessary for survival after all)
-Friends (human and animal)
-Getting away from the city every now and again.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-The passing of my father last year to lung/brain cancer.

-What path I want to take in life, school and career wise, perhaps working permanently with children (typically developing or special needs) or with animals.

-Ongoing gastrointestinal issues I have had since late 2007/early 2008 that have prevented me from working full-time and continuing with school full-time at the moment.
Don't get me wrong, I have a life, am working, am decently active, have had relationships since it began. I've learned to just deal with it and push past the pain. Life is too short to let it stop me. Sometimes at random though it can limit what I used to be able to do or I just have random days where I feel intensely crappy physically out of nowhere because of it. So you must be understanding of it.

-Hoping to one day have a dog (some type of lab or lab mix, but any dog would get my love. It would be an adopted/rescue dog. There are so many out there with great hearts, personalities and compassion that deserve a great home)...and a family. A wife I love and cherish, as much of a goofball as I am, to please and show how much I care about, to sit around and have a lazy day with or a nice evening out. Someone to experience life with. To enjoy, love and laugh with.

-Bowling. Since I have such an interest in it now as of February 2009. That perfect 300 game has still eluded me so far. Still have plenty of time though. I'm still quite proud of my 298 game, as well as making the 2nd most difficult shot in Bowling: The "Big 4" Split (4-6-7-10).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No particular mold set for what is done every friday night. I guess...

-at my Vegas Bowling League, Poker between turns. 🎳🍻🍹🎫 ❤♦♠♣
-just chilling, watching a good flick, hanging with friends.🎥📀
-out at a local dive, enjoying a drink with friends.🍻
-perhaps I am sitting around logged onto this site and others.📱
-or maybe sitting for the former neighbors so they can have a fun, child-free friday night.
-possibly house/dog sitting. 🐾
-watching TV 💻
-out Bowling. Fuck it Dude. Let's Go Bowling.🎳
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I collect Clerks Inaction figures and The Big Lebowski Action figures (2 of my favorite movies). And don't worry, it's not "40 Year Old Virgin" status. They sit in a few storage totes, tucked away in the closet.

I admit to the occasional nosepick. Don't kid yourself. Everyone does it, yet few would ever admit it. You can only truly trust someone who admits it.

(technically though none of this stuff is private now since it has been written on here for all the internet to see)

I don't know how to swim.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-you're nerdy, dirty and flirty.

-you're open minded.

-you're not offended by and laugh at the term "retard strength."

-you've got curves and are proud of it. (curves doesn't necessarily mean fat, but I can see the beauty in all and I can appreciate that and them)

...also a side note from that last blurb, when I say the word "fat", I use it as a descriptive term only. I don't consider it a negative word. Whereas 95% of the women out there interpret it as/many men use it as a negative derogatory term.

-you dig redheads? Hahahaha. I just used the word "dig," not exactly part of my everyday vocabulary.

-you want to know anything or have any questions on just about ANY SUBJECT. I never know what to volunteer up, but will answer anything honestly when asked.