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41 Barcelona, Spain Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 3
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I seem to be attracting a lot of attention from very specific groups of men since I turned 40:

- Toy boys with One Direction hairdos looking for sex with an experienced woman.
- Married men looking for an affair
- People in distant and exotic countries looking for a relationship based purely on long distance chat or skype sex
- Men on the verge or retirement looking for a younger woman

I'm not against trying skype sex if it's not the only option on the menu... if you are someone out of the ordinary (who doesn't fit into one of above groups and is open to actually meeting before 1am and having a drink - scary I know... ) to see if there is chemistry then keep reading.

ME: Positive, good-humoured (most of the time ;-) a little bit cynical, fiercly independant (would be nice to meet a guy with a bigger tool box than mine).

If you're looking to meet someone who always wears colour coordintaed underwear then forget it...if I look down at my feet and my socks are the same colour I already feel pretty pleased with myself.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Feeling incredibly lucky to have such a nice life, being dragged along the street by my dog, sailing and spending as much time by the sea as possible, cooking, loving food, drinking wine...making stuff, travelling, DIY, running in the park (maybe if I write this here I will do it more often) graphic design.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing potential in things, transforming old stuff, making Thai mussels with coconut and lemongrass sauce, counting pixels, getting totally absorbed in a project and not having time to do anything else, finding excuses for my friends when they want to do something they probably shouldn't...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Several good friends have said that when they first met me they thought I was really sweet and innocent and then when they got to know me they realised they were mistaken. Sometimes my eyes, and I'm guessing from the dulcit tones of men in vans the fact that i am "RUBIA!"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books; Incendiary, The Other Hand, Le Petit Prince, Dan Brown (maybe its not cool to admit but who cares), The Tao of Poo, Life of Pi, El abuelo que saltó por la ventana y se largó

Films; Waste Land, Life acuatic, Cinema Paraiso, Paper moon, Leon, Les Visiteurs, Emmas Glück, The Wave, The Boat that rocked, In Search of a Midnight Kiss, Incendies, Perfect Sense, An Education, Amelie, Breakfast Club, Shallow Grave, Fight Club, A clockwork Orange, Wallace & Gromit

Shows; The IT Crowd, Dexter, Big Band Theory, Breaking Bad

Music; Nina Simone, Nick Cave, Cake, Bigott, Madeleine Peyroux, Nouvelle vague, Elvis Perkins, Lou Reed, The Strokes, Dave Matthews Band, Bon Iver, White Stripes, Black Keys, The Cure, The Meters, Eddie Bo, Stevie Wonder, Jackson 5, Chet Baker, Ella Fitzgerald, Otis Reading, PJ Harvey, Regina Spektor, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, David Bowie, Ben Harper, Seu to anything except PUNTXI PUNTXI and people who listen to it in cars with blacked out windows rolled down.

Food; Thai, Indian, Japanese, Greek, loads of fruit and veg, fish, mariscos...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- the sea
- light
- people
- swiss army knife (I don´t have one but as they have a cork screw and screw driver all in one it gets onto my list)
- avocado
- laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
seems to be some confusion about the concept of private
You should message me if
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You don't take yourself too seriously

You don't live with your papis

You're not allergic to dogs

You don't live on the other side of the world

You like positive people ;-)