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alexandraks

41 / F / straight / Single

Wichita, Kansas

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Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am energetic, fun-loving, and sassy.

My Self-Summary

i'm fun, a bit wild, confident and happy. i love my rose colored glasses and i like to "make the best" of every situation. i love meeting new people, trying new things (even once just to say that i at least tried) and enjoying time with friends....

***if you are one of those with old pics, lying about your age, or some other ridiculous lie, then bypass. thank you, tyvm.

What I’m doing with my life

i have wonderful boys, a great job, a nice home, lots of very good friends...i have pretty much anything anyone could want or need.

i love to go do stuff on a whim. i've been to scotland (tried to see nessie, but he wouldn't come out to play), france, iceland, canada...stateside, i've been to nyc, virginia beach, myrtle beach, savannah, charleston, jax, st augustine, daytona, orlando, tampa, clearwater, atlanta, memphis, lexington (to see man'o'war's grave), cinci (kings island), charlotte (carowinds), sandusky (cedar point), the joe (red wings hockey!!!), chi town, milwaukee, kc, st louis, san francisco,...i'm a beach bunny (well, used to be), and a roller coaster fanatic.

I’m really good at

sarcasm. i rock at being sarcastic when i'm trying to be funny!!!!!

The first things people usually notice about me

ugh, if they saw me on the internet, that i'm cuter in person than in pics. go figure.

in general, that i'm confident, intelligent and a bit of a fashionista. if they catch me during football or hockey seasons, they discover pretty quick that i look girly girl, but i'm a total tomboy.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

favorite books: uh. crap. i realized that the last book i read, i'm still reading, it's been over a year and i'm still not done and it's only 215 pages...

favorite movies: clerks (including clerks 2), detroit rock city, varsity blues, breakfast club, an officer and a gentleman, indiana jones (anything harrison ford rocks!!!!), star wars trilogy (yes, super uber geek--and if you've watched clerks...the only true trilogy...), star trek, xmen series, anything with vin diesel, christian bale...oh and especially if stuff blows up!!!

favorite food: depends on where i'm at. back home: tony packo's dogs!!! kansas: the bbq around here is fantastic. in general, great steaks (ribeye--with lots of fat or filet), sushi, oysters carolina roast style, hooters buffalo shrimp, big thick medium rare burgers (i'm kinda a meat and potatoes kinda girl), sweet potato fries (if i can find em)....lived in the deep south for quite a while: grits with butter and pepper, fried okra, and real southern fried chicken. finally, my grandma's fav recipes that only i ever learned to make.... :D

The six things I could never do without

things that i would like to never do without: my boys. my dog. that's 4.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

i'm analytical, so i think a lot... :D

On a typical Friday night I am

depends. in general, ending the work week with a couple of beers, listening to music, and winding down...either at home or a favorite bar--usually with friends, but not afraid to be myself either (good thing since most of my friends are scattered all over the country/world)...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i completely think like a guy except in emotional distress--at which point, i completely think like a girl. so even though i'm especially logical for a woman, i completely reserve the right to be all soft and fuzzy...

You should message me if

if you are actually as wonderful as you think you are...(ok i can't help but make jokes, but seriously...) don't expect anything spectacular. i'm not looking for an instant relationship or *ss....