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alexarts

50 Minneapolis, MN Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
..primarily bi-coastal writer/filmmaker who lives in the midwest! ..ivy honors graduate with genius level iq....deeply independent and at the same time profoundly dependent... honest to a fault....passionate...confused/clear...athletic and outdoorsy.... thoughtful..........two beautiful kids from previous marriage......looking for an adventuresome, morally courageous, lovely, brilliant woman to share all of this with - if you're interested in sailing the world's oceans in due course or traveling to make art collaboratively - all the better!
WILL BE IN SICILY/CALIFORNIA/AFRICA FOR A PORTION OF THIS WINTER - WOULD LIKE TO TRAVEL WITH A PARTNER
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
making art...sailing..and not watching TV (have watched 11 hours or so since 1997)...yoga...inner work....parenting....publishing a book of poetry....zen meditation...skiing...running....swimming....editing a film
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
hard creative work...analysis of situations..poetry..writing...film direction and production...loving my kids....loving my lover....living in ambiguity...living with intensity and passion and integrity...writing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that i am definitely not from around here
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
wow - so much to reflect upon! - i'll just give examples from each category

BOOKS - collected poetry of wilfred owen
the origin of consciousness in the breakdown of the bicameral mind - jaynes
wit and its relation to the unconscious - freud
a bend in the river - naipaul
the little prince - st exupery
a book of five rings - musashi
aikido and the dynamic sphere - ratti and westbrook?(cant remember)
various books in german history by joachim fest
whats his name's bio of dietrich bonhoeffer
michael brown the presence process
the transmisson of light (cleary translation)
tao te ching and i ching
relativity visualized (can't remember author)
various titles by arthur c clarke and isaac asimov and frank herbert (dune) and ray bradbury
A sportsman's notebook - turgenev
three tragedies by lorca
the work of jorge luis borges
the work of kawabata
typhoon - conrad
fastnet force ten - rousmaniere
ezra pound's asian poems

FILM - breaker morant - hamlet 2000 - traffic - traffik - the usual suspects - winter light - 2001 - clockwork orange - fahrenheit 451 - kurosawa's work in general particularly dreams, ran, dersu uzala, and to live - das boot - stalingrad - ghost dog

SHOWS - as i lay dying (adaptation) (do they mean theatre or tv i don't watch tv) - the comedies of aristophanes and moliere - select shakespeare plays - various pieces I have worked on/acted in - stuff directed by my friend wric morgan cutler and involving my friend katherine partington

MUSIC - bach - tupac - shastokovich - the fat boys - u2 - beethoven - anything played or sung by my children- etc etc - sinead o connor - smashing pumpkins - baroque music - zeppellin - hendrix - dylan

FOOD - certain types of sushi - italian - ethiopian - russian - german - french - turkish - spanish
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the sun
the clouds
the mountains
the sea
my friends and extended family
my children
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sailing, the film project, my kids, politics, the economy, ex lovers, the east coast, the west coast, martial arts, philosophy, religion/spirituality, special and general relativity, quantum theory, asian philosophy, friends, sexuality/sensuality, russia, my family, my poetry and the poetry of others, my film and the films of others, theatre, art, life and death, the universes, projects, women, a few books i am writing, and etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
atypical
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that i have private things to admit that i will admit in private
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are brilliant, adventuresome, morally courageous, passionate, athletic, kind, inquisitive, artistic, and uniquely lovely