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alexavier

43 M Leavenworth, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Mar 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Okay), C++ (Poorly), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
SELF SUMMARY MACH3- i'M AN URBAN SPELUNKER WHO'S EXPLORED ALMOST EVERY MAJOR METROPOLIS IN THE U.S.A. AFTER MUCH TRAVEL AND A NEAR-DEATH INCIDENT i'M NOW RECOVERING AS A BACHELOR IN LEAVENWORTH,WA.SNUGGLED UP NEXT TO A MOUNTAIN,A RIVER, AND A BEAUTIFUL BAVARIAN THEMED TOWN.sEATTLE IS NOT THAT FAR AWAY, AND THERE ARESTILL SOME UNEXPLORED CORNERS OF IT!COME ADVENTURE WITH ME OR WE CAN STAY IN LISTEN TO SOME MUSIC AND CUDDLE UP WITH A GOOD MOVIE? JUST REMEMBER ONE THING"NEVER LET YOUR FEAR CONTROL YOUR FATE!"/ALEXAVIER
/alexavier

I am extroverted, pragmatic, and quixotic
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm living it as large as it will let me!despite all obstacles,handicaps, or objections.I'm honored to have two god-children.one son,one daughter,so I do devote parts of my life to their upbringing. I'm a non denominational reverend studying most major religions and finding joy in their similarities the main thing I do with my life is share it with beautiful,intelligent people! /alexavier
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
taking things in moderation including moderation!
traveling,writing,communicating.not being bored,and beingin love with the world I'm good at being me!! /alexavier
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wear my universe on my sleeve,I don't always believe what I believe.give me half a chance I'll probably take some leave!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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[A]BOOKS ( or in this case AUTHORS, some book titles to fallow later!!!

Mark Twain, Hunter S.Thomposn, Robert A. Heinlein,J.R.R.Tolkin,Douglas Adams,Carlos Castenada, Neil Stephenson,William S.Burroughs,Chuck Palahniuk, Ernest Hemingway, Henry Miller, Anais Nin, Sigmund Freud, Carl G. Jung,Darwin,Copernicus,Pythagorus, Tso Tse,Isaac Asimov,Aurther C. Clark,Dan Joy ( and J.Morgenthaller too),Hakim Bey,Shakespear,Keats and Yeats!Robert Frost, Oscar Wilde, Ambrose Bierce, Krishna, John Dee, Biblical Passages and Theological debates.
give me an atlas, and I will read it like a novel,
Hunbatz Men ( and anything else about the Mayas, or the Tzolkin Calendar Round), Peter Caroll, selected Crowley, Isreal]] Regarde


all kinds of books, and way too many magazines!!!
I used to do tech and/or act in plays, have read so many short stories, magazine articles, and pamphlets or zines. I am surprised I don't need glasses. {shrug} I love to read aloud, and to be read to.

[B]MOVIES(and some shows)CURRENTLY INTO: Battlestar Galactica 2003 ( the movies) and the series 2004 - 05, Six Feet Under Henry and June, Quills, Dangerous Liasons, Blade Runner, Time Bandits, Good Morning Vietnam, '7' , THE TRILOGIES... Lord of the Rings, Star Wars ( classic and now new ), Better Off Dead, Ferris Beullers'Day Off, 100 Girls, The Matrix (..1 only), Being John Malkovich, Happiness, Pulp Fiction, Hong Kong Cinema , Kill Bill(s), Suicide Kings, Bad Santa, Nightmare Before Xmas, Kenneth Anger, Derrick Jarmen, 1000 Hotels, BRAZIL, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, American Psycho, The Lost Boys, Skinny Puppy Live 1987, Scratch, High Fidelity, This Is Spinal Tap, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Bicentenial Man, The Running Man, Logans Run, Run Lola Run, Eraser Head, Lost Highways, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, The Fabulose Adventures of Amelie Poulin, Sixteen Candles, Fight Club, Pink Floyd The Wall, Purple Rain, The Man Who Knew Too Much, Princess Mononoke, Akira, Tetsuo the iron Man, Dr. Strangelove, Ghost in the Shell, Clockwork Orange, Fear and Loathing in Loss, Brahm Strockers Dracula, Silence of the Lambs, Road Trip, Bowling for Columbine, 12 Monkeys, Boondock Saints, The Dark Crystal, Labrynth, The Man Who Fell to Earth, Apollo 13, Tape Head Cleaner, Jacobs Ladder, Full Metal Jacket, The Shining, ALIENS, The Last Temptation of Christ, Apocalypse Now, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Requiem for a Dream, PI, Easy Rider, Its A Wonderful Life, Singing in the Rain, The Wizard of Oz, THE WIZZBreakin' 2 - electric boogaloo , Metropolis, 2001: a space odyssey, Darkman, Delicatessan , The Cell, 13 Ghost, Zoolander, et tu mama cambien,Hellraiser, Devils Advocate, Angel Heart, The Serpent and the Rainbow, The Truman Show, Wizards, B.C. Rocks, Heavey Metal, Fritz the Cat, Sex, Lies, and Video Tape, American Beauty, American Gothic, Groundhog Day, Ghostbusters ,UH1 more shows.... THE OBLONGS, FUTURAMA, FAMILY GUY, adult swim type toons, esp. space ghost: coast to coast, and the brak show!!!

[C]SO MANY FAVES, SO FEW K's. Most Gothic Industrial, from a to z, from uber oontzt to uber gothy. Yet there is so much music that falls to one side or another of that description. DAVID BYRNE/ BRIAN ENO/ DANIEL LANOIS/ EDWARD KA SPEL- LEGENDARY PINK DOTS et al/ COIL- THROBBING GRISTLE et al/ TALK TALK/ RYoKSOPP/ THOUSHALTNOT/ DOWNLOAD/ SKINNY PUPPY/ Wumpscut]]PETER MURPHY/ DANIEL ASH/ DAVID J-et al/ DANNY ELFMAN]]-OINGO BOING]]-et al/XYMOX]]/WOLFSHIEM/ NON/ BOLSHOI]]/DAF]]/LACRIMOSA]]/ EBN]]/SNOG]]/CURRENT93/ UNTO AHSES/ BLACK TAPE FOR BLUE GIRL et al/ DAVID BOWIE vs TRENT REZNOR]] era/ALL BOWIE ERA's/ DEVO/ SWANS/ EINSTURZENDE NUEBATEN/ LEONARD COHEN/ FLOGGIN MOLLY/ SARAH MCLAUGHLIN/ Frontline Assembly- DELERIUM-INTERMIXet al/ ORBITAL]]/BJORK/THE ORB/UNDERWORLD/ASTRALASIA/MEAT BEAT MANIFESTO/HANZEL und GRETYL/RADIOHEAD/TORI AMOS/RUN DMC]]/CONSOLIDATED/DJS OF MASS DESTRUCTION/Q BERT/LUKE VIBERT/BEASTIE BOYS/BECK/AKASH/LORDS OF ACID/WEIRD AL YANKOVIC/COVENANT/SPF 1000/DIVA DESTRUCTION/INFORMATION SOCIETY, and finally, the ficticous.'DJ JAZZY JEFF BECK and the ARTIST FORMERLY KNOWN AS THE FRESH PRINCE EXPEREINCE'

[D] FOODS? Damn, that reminds me the above list has leaft me HUNGRY!!! I'll tell ywa what I eat later.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex things I could never do without? Never!!? Never-never? Hey those are strange words in relationship to sex these days!!! (thanks Micheal J.)

OH, SIX, It's Six THINGS... O.K. That makes more sense!

1. Interaction, I am not fine with a deck of 51, and half memorized rules to solitary. I need people, and appreciate when they need me!
2. Challenge, Until the world sees that it would be as good, if not better, with me in charge. I might as well be challenged. Not in the pissing contest sort of way. I hate that. When someone decides we should waste our time battling over jealousy, or to be king of some dumb ass hill, I withdrawl! Life is a challenge, and making things happen that can be fun, and multi-benificial is a worthy goal. If we are too busy fighting each other, it's not going to happen,DIG!
3. MUSIC!!! - On many days this is #1 - cant go without it, yet I can turn even the wind, or the city into musical rhythms.
4. Connection: being without it makes me feel, well...'disconnected, disinfected, waiting in my cage for you to call.' I love finding things that connect thoughts, principles, and moments. Peices of a 4-D puzzle, you and me together... (inside joke on that part-sorry.)
5. Mystery.... well, becuase, uh, well, GUESS!
6. Women...lets face it, all of the above seems to work well with the ladies close by. What would I talk about without the 'loves of my life!' Whom could I invite to re-join me on a favorite adventure, or road trip. Or to watch a special sunset, or sunrise from somewhere in my expanded world of Oceans, Mountains, and Landmarks.

One more.... just cuz' MYSELF. I love myself, yet I am hard on myself, and yet I cant get by without myself. SO WHEN I LOOK IN THE MIRROR SOMETIMES I SAY 'It's you and me against the world!!!'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinking....
and Brain Chemicals
and Women.

Also thinking about music, travel, promotion, and how to get the good music to the people who know good music, with all being in a win situation...

Veggie Diesel,
Interviews and other writings I need to sell.
Money, buyt only when I have to. The human condition.
GOD...can my brain just stop for a bit!!!

I think about poly amoury often, and how to do more than bring every atrtraction to the obvious end; Intercourse.
I want to love richly, but even though I also want to love many, I need longer lasting interactions than 'nice boots wanna shag!!!'
Sure I love the compliment, but I want a TANGO PARTNER. Or a Travel Partner, or even a secret...somthing simple, only alive when shared.

How is that for thought!

polyamoury
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wondering if it is Friday,and if it's too late to go get groceries, or just not go to SF, unless there is a good Trancey/sexy/adult rave ( thats what I call them. )

Friday nights are not quite right for fighting, so it's a flip of the coin to find me in or out!

Both have bonuses!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sheesh, this is a tough one.
Admit, well, I have little shame for who, and what I am. Yet some feel I hide some of my darker sides. does one really complain about thier toe fungus on a date with someone they wish to impress. No!
Is that lying? No!
I will admit to my love of being in touch with my Anima, via a healthy appreciation for silky things, thigh highs, and feather boas. Not ever trying to be a Woman, but just having fun, and allowing a more female version of my sexual chi to have control.

funny thing is, if i go out n about in a long or short skirt (sorry not a scot, but it is kilt like... yet the socks are more like stay ups!!!), I often have to confront homophobic males, and sometimes females about my manner of dress.

So, sometimes, it goes like this;

Dude 1 and Dude 2 'hey look, he's in a dress...'
me ' no , it's a skirt, like a sarape, or a kilt, just comfy, not neccessarily to try to look like a woman.'
Duudes 'Hey, thats kinda wimpy, lets beat his ass!'
me 'Gentlemen, Gentlemen... I have learned from the streets of L.A. and S.F. how to defend myself. So let me assure you that the only thing that is wimpier than a man in a skirt, is the man being beaten by the man in a skirt. Who wants to be that man?'

DUDES 'Uh, well, naaahh, that's ok, your alright man, ( at this point they notice that I am with at least 2 or 3 ladies who are now curious about this situation), yeah man, uh lets get you a beer.

me '?'

Dudes 'yeah, so you get a lot of babes in that skirt or what?'

Me (thinking hell yeah...) 'Oh, ya know, >shruging shoulders< !'

Usually thats the end of it. Yet I never feel to comfy when 'duudes' like that are around, and hopefully they get me my beer, and after the Women I am with blow em off, they go away to hunt for some people more to thier likig.
I try not to judge people. Even Men who think I have to fight with them to be accepted by them. Yet it's good to remember whom to trust.
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You want to chat, or find out why I am wired the way I am or whatever messaging means to YOU! You may also seek me out at Y! IM. My name there is rstrange233



Cheers



/alexavier