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35 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 31–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:18am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
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I am a very upbeat, positive, energetic person who is always up for an adventure. I can be very spur of the moment and am always up for a last minute trip anywhere! My friends mean the world to me and I will do absolutely anything for them. I've been told my laugh is contagious. I can make even the worst situations a little lighter and I'm really good in a crisis (just ask any of my friends who have needed random rescues!).
I am a fairly independent person, but I would prefer to be sharing my life with someone.
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved to the Bay Area last month and am having a lot of fun exploring my new city and area. I have lived in the Northeast for the majority of my life and am looking forward to living in a more temperate climate where I can be outside everyday (without long underwear!).
I manage a group of health educators throughout the west coast which allows me to do a lot of fun travel. I work from home which provides me with a lot of flexibility.

I do not like sitting still- I am always out and about doing something. I started running when I moved to Boston about five years ago and have run a few half marathons, including two from Napa to Sonoma (the wine at the finish line is a great motivator).

Like most people, I love to travel, especially to warm climates. I work from home which gives me a lot of flexibility with how I spend my days/nights.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
laughing, smiling, organizing, planning a trip, making any situation fun, caring for people...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I just finished Chelsea Handler's My Horizontal Life- one of the funniest books I have read! Gone girl
the Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night, I Know This Much is True, The Kite Runner, The Hunger Games, Music: anything but heavy metal... well, just about anything!
TV: I have an addiction to General Hospital that started in high school- I watch it daily
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. friends
2. sunshine
3. laughing
4. fresh air
5. the ocean
6. being barefoot
7. Men
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people litter
Where I want to travel next
How and why some people never smile
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends for dinner or drinks.
You should message me if
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1. You are not looking for a pen pal. I feel strongly that this is a great place to meet people but that you have to meet in person to really get to know one another and see if you have chemistry.
2. You don't have a profile pic that you took yourself with your phone in the bathroom mirror!