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alexlavelle2005

27 M Smyrna, GA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:30pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hello, I'm Alex.

I'm originally from a small town in northwest Georgia; I moved to the Atlanta area for college, and aside from a semester in Australia and a brief period back in my hometown to help my parents sort out some things at the family business, I've been here ever since.

I tend to be fairly even-tempered and analytical; I usually don't let things get to me and usually do what I can to the people around me keep stress and drama to a minimum. I'd usually rather fix a problem than spend my time worrying that it exists in the first place.

I'm also at least a bit of an introvert, and I get that sometimes people need their space.

When I'm not keeping myself busy with work and theater obligations, I usually unwind with a combination of Netflix and Hulu, comic books, and video games. I'll admit to having some pretty nerdy interests (and I like the idea of a potential partner also having those sorts of interests, even if they don't overlap much with my own--I find the passion that comes with those interests attractive, in its own way), but I like to think I'm pretty good at not beating people who don't share those interests over the head with them.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a consultant and project manager for a company that specializes in certain types of business software. It sounds pretty dry, but it has its moments--there's a good deal of creative thinking involved, and I consistently get to deal with clients and prospects all over the world.

I also spend a lot of time working on plays. I mostly design lighting or direct, but at this point I've done just about everything possible for live theater except costume design and hair/makeup. I do my best to stay off the stage, but every now and then will even act. There are typically extenuating circumstances.

Beyond that, I sometimes tutor coworkers' children (almost always in math); over the last several months I've made it a point to get to the gym regularly; and on Wednesday nights I can usually be found at my regular comic shop.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem-solving. Seeing patterns and shortcuts. Spacial reasoning. Scheduling way more into a given amount of time than I should probably be able to. Math (which I mention only because I don't actually get to use it very much). Tangents and segues. Remembering what a conversation was about before I chased down half a dozen different tangents and segues.

Oh, and things that don't make me sound like some kind of insane person who spends too much time in front of a chalkboard: card and board games, video games, certain kinds of design, playing name-that-tune with show tunes. Theater. I used to play the bass clarinet, but I am quite out of practice now.

Oh, and cooking/baking. I'm pretty handy in a kitchen.
The first things people usually notice about me
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There seems to be a pretty even split lately between people telling me that I come across as being fairly intimidating and people telling me that I'm an incredibly calming presence. Perhaps unsurprisingly, I do tend to get along with the latter group more easily than I do the former.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pretty much any of these lists could go on ad nauseam, so each is the first few things to come to mind and is by no means comprehensive.

Print
Books: The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Don Quixote, The House of the Spirits, American Gods (and Neil Gaiman in general), A Song of Ice and Fire.

Plays: Anything by George Bernard Shaw or Bertolt Brecht; Picasso at the Lapin Agile, No Exit, Peer Gynt, When the Rain Stops Falling, Glengarry Glen Ross.

Comics: You know what, I actually could use more people to talk to about comics. If you're curious, message me and let's compare notes; I really like finding out what other people are following.

Film
Movies: Star Wars, Back to the Future, Indiana Jones, Lord of the Rings, Inception, Mel Brooks's library, Chris Nolan's Batman films, Marvel's Cinematic Universe, Ratatouille, 12 Angry Men, Sweet Smell of Success, Ghostbusters, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, James Bond movies, V for Vendetta, Speed Racer, Scott Pilgrim, Star Trek.

Television: Chuck, Castle, Psych, The Big Bang Theory, House, Dexter, Seinfeld, Frasier, Scrubs, How I Met Your Mother, Fringe, The West Wing, Warehouse 13, Get Smart, the Adam West Batman series from the '60s, Arrow, Doctor Who, and various cartoons that I grew up on including Rocky and Bullwinkle, Pinky and the Brain, and nearly everything Bruce Timm did.

Other
Music: This is just all over the place for me. I really like a little bit of a lot of things. And a lot of a few things. I also listen to a lot of Podcasts: Sawbones and My Brother, My Brother, and Me are favorites.

Food: Favorites include Italian, Thai, Indian, and Chinese.

(I've seen some people also slip in favorite video games in here. I've entertained the thought myself, but we'd be here a long time. Again, if you're curious, feel free to ask.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My closest friends,
Financial stability,
My sense of humor,
Reason,
Some form of entertainment, and
Plenty of water. (Dehydration just doesn't suit me.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The unfathomable segues and unfortunate puns that I seem to reflexively generate, how to Tetris my schedule just a little more to fit one more thing into it, whether or not I should be ashamed of using Tetris as a verb, what I should bake for a given event, that I probably need to read the script for the next show(s) I'm working on since they're opening soon, or "How is it [insert today's date] already? I swear it was just [insert a date approximately six to eight months ago]!"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Somewhere between Atlanta and Chattanooga, maybe with friends or maybe on my own: haunting a bookstore; catching a movie; enjoying a play; perusing an electronics store; or just enjoying an evening in with a book, a movie, a video game, some music, a new recipe, or any other interesting diversion. Or at the gym.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have genetically high iron. I am given to understand that this grants me a notable resistance to the effects of the Bubonic Plague. I have not tested this theory, but I have to admit it sounds pretty cool.
You should message me if
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You want to.

As far as I'm concerned, it's as simple as that. If you're worried about it being somehow too forward or improper for a girl to message a guy (and I have seen people on here say as much), I promise that I don't care about that kind of thing. As long as I can see some common ground, and I think we'd get along, I'll respond. And I'm pretty easygoing.