my corresponding base pair? my missing puzzle piece?
I want to have fun! I'm tired of being the single one of my friends, and I want someone to enjoy spending time with, and all that comes with that. I may not be thin, but I'm pretty freakin awesome :D I'm a bit of a nerd and a little socially awkward, buuut I'm a scientist, therefore it should be a bit expected... so hopefully you can roll with it. I've also always been into sports and working out, and the second job at a gym to get a free membership is always nice. I'm very independent as far as life stuff goes (bought my own car and house), I love my job, and I'm quite social, I'm just really tired of being lonely and the only single person out with my friends. I'm looking for an adult relationship with possible future, aka, I'd love a best friend with benefits and emotions, or in other words a relationship, but it doesn't have to start out so committed as that usually sounds. I'm not interested in committing myself to the wrong guy. Getting too old to waste time that way. Be honest, and candid, (that doesn't mean be an ***hole) and I will do the same.
I want someone who is thin and healthy, can play like a kid with me, likes the occasional spontaneous road trip to the ocean or a hike or even just to listen to music and look at scenery. Enjoying video games and anime isn't a requirement, but be willing to occasionally watch one of my movies, and I do like to have the occasional veg day playing final fantasy or elder scrolls for hours in my pjs, I only get those like once a month maybe. I also like watching guys play games, curled up next to them on the couch, so of course I prefer you're into them, buuuut like I said, not necessary.
I believe in constantly working to improve myself, and I prefer people who are of the same mindset. Downers need not apply. Everyone gets a little down sometimes, but I try to keep a positive attitude and keep moving forward, constantly trying to improve someones mood and outlook on life is exceptionally draining. I've done it, and I'm not looking to do it again.
Comments on the details, since there aren't enough options :P I'm 420 friendly though it's rare that I use, and I am in a relationship, but looking for a relationship with more possibility: I have a bf, but there's no potential for marriage and children for me. He and his wife are "monogamish" and I suppose I'm following suit, which basically means I don't go for the sleeping around open marriage stuff, but I think having more than one ongoing relationship can be healthy and functional, and I'd rather not give up that relationship for someone until I know without question that new relationship will be long term. That might be a deal breaker, it's obviously up for negotiation with the right person, but it is where I am in life right now so if you're right for me, you won't mind :)