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45 Austin, TX Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 9
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
My self-summary
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I come from rural roots – think redneck version of Anne of Green Gables but with even more hard labor involved. Wanderlust led me to living abroad for 5 years (Germany, Taiwan, Japan) and hence becoming more like a “global citizen”. I don't have a TV and have lived without one most of my life. If it's possible to be over-educated, I'm might qualify...23yrs in school with BA, MA, and Ph.D. all in different areas. I’m an INFP, HSPer+high sensation seeker, thinker but not advocator, relatively goal driven, adventurous, very aesthetic and completely passionate about my work. I’m athletic but not really a sports fan. Mostly, I’m a runner who loves salsa dancing and other excuses to get dolled up. Friends describe me as genuine, insightful, practical, minimalist, efficiency minded, somewhat tomboyish, surprisingly domestic (cook, clean-yes, even windows…ok, I don’t sew but wouldn’t mind learning) and effervescent (yep, someone actually said that and meant it!).
What I’m doing with my life
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Work-wise: As a teacher I wear a lot of hats - facilitator, cheerleader, life-coach, mentor, guru of skill development, creative genius, etc. Basically, I teach college level speaking skills and specialize in accent modification for non-native English speakers.

Relationship-wise: Having meaningful interaction with co-workers and friends. Not looking for "mr right" or someone to 'complete me' - I've already figured out the myth there. I would, however, love a healthy supportive passionate adventurous fun inspiring mind, body, soul connection. Who doesn't?!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-being MacGyver in the kitchen by creating a dinner with whatever is in the fridge or pantry
-making healthy eating and exercise routine while still allowing for indulgences that are worth it
-avoiding/procrastinating things I don't like to do
-teaching/facilitating/accent mod coaching
The first things people usually notice about me
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Je ne sais quoi
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:non-fiction over fiction. SQ21, Brene Brown's-Daring Greatly & The Gift of Imperfection; Memorable: The Untethered Soul, Outliers, 4-Hour Work Week, The Artist Way, The Acorn Principle; Other: Memoir of Geisha, anything by Paulo Coelho

Movies: drama/comedy/foreign/documentaries

Music: whatever I'm in the mood for....Salsa, Pink Martini, Takenobu, Classical-Satie, Prokofiev, Lang Lang, YoYoMa, Philip Glass

Food: homemade over restaurant, healthy; coffee, beer, wine - dark and bold:) mac & cheese at Wink, thin crust Italian style pizza, ethnic fare-Japanese, Thai
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fresh air/nature
meaningful interactions
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a more effective instructor...and how to make the most of my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Salsa dancing, happy hour, or home reading a book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I admitted something it wouldn't be
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are...
-chivalous alpha manly-man...(yes, I'm independent but I prefer not to lead)
- verbal-linguistic, nerd/brainiac-type
-a guy who truly enjoys partner dances (or would be willing to learn)
- a camper, hiker (mountain over beach person), National Park fan, international traveler
-a person who appreciates finer things but doesn't judge others by their income level.