I am a romantic daydreamer and a silly girl. I can also be a super serious lady. My big heart and a solid backbone may seem to contradict one another but I am full of duality. Balance is what I mainly seek in this life.

Somethings About Me:
*I have a bachelors degree, focusing in communication.
*I am a Unitarian Universalist although I'm not religious.
*I am a small dog person. I also enjoy exotic animals.
*I relocated to Austin in Jan 2011. I'm from the Midwest, and it shows.
*I like chivalry and old fashioned attitudes about many things... but I'm very progressive.
*420 and maybe ONE drink...
*ENFP - Chaotic Neutral

I am by principle ♥Polyamorous♥. I want to be attached. I like comfortable but complicated relationships with easy, clearly articulated people. I am Not a Swinger, I am Not into casual sex...Not that there's anything wrong with that. I've been single for awhile and don't rush sex nor relationships. Really this is because I'm super scared of all your icky germs!! I require 'quarantine' periods. I'm not keen on ANY illness, not even colds/flus (so that means kissing is included in the quarantine). If you're doing mysterious stuff, I will follow contagion guidelines. I get sick easily and don't want to miss out on fun or work!

*I'm a professional Bad-Ass. Yes, it's serious business.

*Alternating between working hard and hardly working. I'm still trying to find consistency in life.

*I Live Spontaneously!

Being an AMAZING host! You will be comfortable whether you like it or not.
Inconsistency.
Dancing, without any inhibitions, on an empty dance floor. Sober.
Match-Making off all kinds...
Being the wild-yet-responsible one.

sometimes it's that I'm outgoing......
...and
........ sometimes it's that I'm aloof.

Music: (Dark/Morose, Dance-ish, and Exotics are faves)

Alice in Chains, Beck, Belly, Bjork, Bob Marley, Bowie, Brazilian Girls, Chris Issak, Dead Kennedy's, Devo, Erykah Badu, Explosions in the Sky, Gypsy Kings, Jamiroquai, Janis Joplin, Jimi Hendrix, Julee Cruise, Led Zepplin, Leonard Cohen, Le Tigre, Macy Gray, Morphine, Mr. Bungle, NIN, Nirvana, Pink Floyd, Portishead, Primus, Radiohead, R.E.M, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Rollingstones, Scissor Sisters, Southern Culture, Squirrel Nut Zippers, Stevie Ray Vaughan, St. Germaine, Sublime, Talking Heads, The Clash, The Cramps, The Cure, The Damned, The Doors, The Inkspots, The Kinks, The Pixies, The Smiths, Tool, Tom Petty, Tori Amos, Ween, Weezer

Any MTV Unplugged and more...

Movies: (Dark Humor and Fantasy are faves)

Back to the Future (I-III), Being John Malkovich, Better Off Dead, Big Lebowski, Blazing Saddles, Blue Velvet, Buffalo '66, The Butcher's Wife, Delicatessen, Donnie Darko, Emmet Otter's Jug-Band Christmas, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Evil Dead Trilogy, Fargo, Fight Club, Goonies, Groundhog's Day, Harold & Maude, Hudson Hawk, Hudsucker Proxy, Into the Wild, Joe Vs. the Volcano, Lord of the Flies, Lost Boys, Mary & Max, Memento, Microcosmos (ultimate make-out movie), Mothman Prophecies, Natural Born Killers, Outsiders, Pan's Labyrinth, Pink Flamingos, Popeye, Princess Bride, Raising Arizona, Secretary, She-Devil, This is Spinal Tap, True Romance

Films directed by Sergio Leone, Stanley Kubrick, and John Waters are almost always amazing...they could only be improved if they starred Bruce Campbell.

Good Planning
The "twist" of magical unpredictability
Black Lycra
Social Interactions
Resting in solitude
Harmonious Contradiction

well...how did I get here?

Rating profiles on OKC. If I give you a high-rating it doesn't mean that I anticipate conversation. It helps me to find more profiles that I like. My needs are pretty niche, I just appreciate good qualities.

I will be Burning Flipside this weekend...
but you probably won't recognize me.
If you spot me, you get a prize.

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*You are interesting & interested (and you actually know the difference)
*You think I'm physically attractive
*Have ever played with (or been) an LG, AB, or "Little" of any kind...
*You give good 'belly laughs'!
*Enjoy 420 & Thrift Store shopping
*You're intrigued by my professional grade dungeon :)
*Can educate me on a skill (dog training, leather working etc)
*Are talented in giving polite fashion tips & opinions
*Want to work on collaborative art projects
*you are magical...
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