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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-45
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Nov 14
Black, Other
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
We put so much time and effort into things that aren't real without even realizing it. I'm ready to wake up, see the truth and find something REAL no matter how difficult or daunting the journey.

I'm not like other guys you meet in life. I'm finding it more true every day. I am strong enough to stand up when others won't and secure enough to admit when I am wrong or need help. I like to be healthy physically mentally emotionally and am always pushing myself to be better.

I exist in the middle of everything. Too good to be bad and to bad to be good. To this to be that and that to this. It makes things hard when you are spiritually motivated but can't leave the rest of the world behind like some die hards do. I will meditate, attend a spiritual service at different temples, churches and spiritualist groups but still go out and have a drink with friends from time to time. Its my path to understand and no one else's.

Being open minded and perceptive are HUUUUUUUUGE to me. They are at the very core of a lot of desirable characteristics.

I moved around my whole life so nowhere ever really felt like home. Im always looking though. There is nothing holding me down or back. I'd go anywhere in the world to meet the right people and am willing to make things happen to get there. I like to travel so I'm everywhere anyway. Where there is a will there is a way. Hopefully the internet will make things easier...

I like women of all shapes, sizes and nationalities, I could list a
lot of qualities but I feel the most important qualities are a good
heart, motivation, an open mind and intellectual competence. If you have these anything is possible. Even if you aren't who or where you want to be these traits will get you there :)

"When I was a young boy my mama said to me 'There's only one girl in the world for you and she probably lives in Tahiti.' I'd go the whole wide world just to find her."
What I’m doing with my life
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I am working full time in distribution but in my free time enjoy film making, acting, writing, anything outdoors, learning new languages, helping people, being active,TRAVELING, self education and learning new things in general. Lately I have also been writing a lot of music. I play guitar and sing I listen to EVERY type of music but play a lot of melodic rock, pop, acoustic, jazz and rockabilly and anything else that sounds good. I have a growing interest in the vegi/vegan lifestyle but am not sure I can commit :P I would never be a nazi about it though.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being open minded and straight forward as far as personality.
As far as talents though I am a very quick learner and find that I can learn things fast and perform them well. I am a Jack of all trades.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
THAT I AM NOT A STEREOTYPICAL BLACK GUY, how I try to make people feel comfortable, how "well spoken" I am, my physique?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I appreciate the good in MANY different types of entertainment but lean towards anything artistic and out of the box. Smart, witty unique artforms that truely stand out. Something that I can learn from as well.

MUSIC: pop, rock, edm, hip hop, trap, shoegaze, punk, metal, hardcore, folk, dreampop, chiptune, rockabilly, a little country, a little dub step and much much more.

The 1975, John Lennon, Drake, Elvis Presley, NWA, Tegan and Sara, Bruno Mars, Haim, Childish Gambino, Alannis Morissette, Bright Eyes, The blood brothers, The Darkness, Joan Jett, MGMT, M83, Modest mouse, Modestep, The Mars Volta,Panic! At the Disco, Paramore, Prince, MJ, Henry Rollins, Third Eye Blind

MOVIES: Almost Famous, Hook, True Romance, Forest Gump, The Watchmen, Inception, Boogie Nights, Star Trek ('09), Eternal sunshine, Smoking Aces, Science of sleep, Waking Life, Requiem for a dream, Kevin smith, Rob Zombie Russel Brand, James Cameron, Cameron Crowe, Tarantino

TV: Entourage, Breakig Bad, Doug, Walking Wead, Community, Metallocalypse, Clone High, Reno, Skins (UK), American Horror Story, Portlandia

Books: Anything on metaphysics, spirituality, the mind, the body, computers, music or society.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
FAITH (in many people, ideas and concepts), confidance, love, self education, kindred spirits, CHOCOLATE!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Traveling and meeting new people. Helping people. How to better myself. Aspirations.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wishing I was out meeting new people but home watching a movie tired from work. Maybe writing music :)
You should message me if
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You are open minded, silly, free spirited, loving, strong, internally beautiful.