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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-65
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Last online
Yesterday – 7:55am
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Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Special Diet
Other and it’s important
Working on University
Might want kids
My self-summary
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I am a kind, warm, intelligent, sensual, silly, straight leaning bi-poly male. I am generally open to having more friends and possibly sweeties if there is a good connection and respect., I am very interested in play and friendships that I develop together with my sweet hot partner Sucqbus. I am a sales person and a peace and social justice activist--some might say a bit of a post-hippie. I am teddy bear shaped and give a great massage.
What I’m doing with my life
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working,loving,working for change; being silly, trying to be in the moment much of the time. I really enjoy getting around on my e-bike. Recently I have been involved in the campaign to re-elect Socialist Kshama Sawant to the Seattle City Council.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Caring about those close to me, giving massage, sensual touch, sharing energy. (I am a reiki master), quoting meaningful song lyrics--such as this from one of my very favorite songs--Uncle John's Band by The Grateful Dead. "The first days are the hardest days, don't you worry anymore. But when life looks like easy street there is danger at your door. Think this through with me, let me know your mind. Oh, oh, what I want to know is, are you kind?"
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am warm and open and I have been told I have a nice smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Ethical Slut, everything by Annie Sprinkle and Susie Bright, Sex At Dawn, SM Stirling's novels of "the change". Lots of surrealist inspired stuff, The King of Hearts, Cirque Du Soleil's Journey of Man (on my 3D TV)
Weeds, Big Love, The Daily Show, Rocky Horror, Patti Smith, Leonard Cohen, Shriekback, The Greatful Dead, Jim Page, Joan Osborn, Firesign Theatre, Loreena McKennit, Dead Can Dance, Vargo, Old Dirty Blues, Ethiopian, Thai, Mongolian, and too many other kinds.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
love, sex, snuggles, the internet, friends and family, connecting with nature/the universe energetically (thru walking, meditation, music, and sensuality)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My friends and lovers, ways of connecting, ways of changing our society for the better. I was very heartened by the Occupy Wall Street movement and aligned movements all over the planet. I feel the movement to re-elect Kshama Sawant carries on a lot of what was good in the Occupy movement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
spending time with friends or sweeties.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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being a straight leaning bi poly male.
You should message me if
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You are in or interested in poly/open relationships, and/or you like some of the things I say and some of my interests,and/or you care the world and social change and you think it might be neat to exchange messages and maybe more. If you are male you should know that I am more often attracted to women, but there definitely are exceptions.