Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a kind, warm, intelligent, sensual, silly, straight leaning
bi-poly male. While I am generally open to having more friends and
possibly sweeties, right now I am most interested in play and
friendships that I develop together with my sweet hot partner
Sucqbus. It would be great if a new connection developed that had
the potential to be an important connection in that context--but I
am open to other communication as well. I am a sales person and a
peace and social justice activist--some might say a bit of a
post-hippie. I am teddy bear shaped and give a great massage.
What I’m doing with my life
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working,loving,working for change; being silly, trying to be in the
moment much of the time. Recently I have been involved in the
successful campaign to elect Socialist Kshama Sawant to the Seattle
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Caring about those close to me, giving massage, sensual touch,
sharing energy. (I am a reiki master), quoting meaningful song
lyrics--such as this from one of my very favorite songs--Uncle
John's Band by The Grateful Dead. "The first days are the hardest
days, don't you worry anymore. But when life looks like easy street
there is danger at your door. Think this through with me, let me
know your mind. Oh, oh, what I want to know is, are you kind?"
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am warm and open and I have been told I have a nice smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Ethical Slut, everything by Annie Sprinkle and Susie Bright,
Sex At Dawn, SM Stirling's novels of "the change". Lots of
surrealist inspired stuff, The King of Hearts, Cirque Du Soleil's
Journey of Man (on my 3D TV)
Weeds, Big Love, The Daily Show, Rocky Horror, Patti Smith, Leonard
Cohen, Shriekback, The Greatful Dead, Jim Page, Joan Osborn,
Firesign Theatre, Loreena McKennit, Dead Can Dance, Vargo, Old
Dirty Blues, Ethiopian, Thai, Mongolian, and too many other kinds.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
love, sex, snuggles, the internet, friends and family, connecting
with nature/the universe energetically (thru walking, meditation,
music, and sensuality)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My friends and lovers, ways of connecting, ways of changing our
society for the better. I was very heartened by the Occupy Wall
Street movement and aligned movements all over the planet. I feel
the movement to elect Sawant carries on a lot of what was good in
the Occupy movement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
spending time with friends or sweeties.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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being a straight leaning bi poly male.
You should message me if
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You are in or interested in poly/open relationships, and/or you
like some of the things I say and some of my interests,and/or you
care the world and social change and you think it might be neat to
exchange messages and maybe more. If you are male you should know
that I am more often attracted to women, but there definitely are
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